Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

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Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP. Actions have consequences. let her burn. Make sure you burn your husband also though.

OP: Oh, he will. This is going to destroy his career.

Anonymous wrote:You two work together. You should know after all these years that he’s sloppy and can be less than thorough when he’s distracted.

I found evidence of your affair from your recent work trip and dug deeper to find screenshots and other useful material. It really wasn’t even that hard. You chose to gamble your future on a fool who doesn’t cover his tracks. Like I said, after the myriad of hours you spend talking and the years you’ve worked together, you should know how he is.

I’m going to share these with your husband. I don’t know when yet. I’m sitting on it and deciding. Your home situation is delicate right now, and I know this is the last thing you need. I’m going to enjoy it. Your poor husband. He has no idea. He seems like a nice man too.

Hope it was worth it. Good luck.

Anonymous wrote:Objectively, how hot are you and how hot is the other woman?
it makes the story so much more juicy if you are fairly hot, and she is really hot.
If you are both pigs, the whole thing seems just skanky.

Anonymous wrote:OP- I confronted her first. She was a total b@tch, blameless in her own eyes and self-righteous. I made up my mind then and there I was telling her spouse.

Perhaps, if she showed some modicum of civility and remorse, offered an apology, I would have thought twice. But, being such a c@ntt and not caring one bit about anyone else….well, I blew that sh@t up for her.

Anybody who carried out what she did and confronted with someone in pain….lets just say having BDP and not recognizing that or even caring…deserved everything that came her way.

I won’t lie. It felt good. Really, really good.

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Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

Does your open marriage involve becoming pregnant with another man’s child, LOL?

Anonymous wrote:OP: I’m telling AP’s husband. There really isn’t any 1950s housewife “keep it contained in your own home” bullshit that is going to make a difference here.

She slept with my husband with the full knowledge we are married. It’s on. AP, please know it’s coming.

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Anonymous wrote:If OP was my real life friend, I would definitely want her to keep her eyes on her life and deciding what’s best for her and her kids.

But since this is the internet, and I love a good train, I forward to the next chapters.

If OP was my friend, I’d be helping her plot her spectacular revenge.

+1 I'm with ya, OP. Go nuclear.

I cannot abide cheaters and liars.

Anonymous wrote:Objectively, how hot are you and how hot is the other woman?
it makes the story so much more juicy if you are fairly hot, and she is really hot.
If you are both pigs, the whole thing seems just skanky.

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Anonymous wrote:If OP was my real life friend, I would definitely want her to keep her eyes on her life and deciding what’s best for her and her kids.

But since this is the internet, and I love a good train, I forward to the next chapters.

If OP was my friend, I’d be helping her plot her spectacular revenge.

Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with