Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 13:29     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.


They need to invest installing cameras outside of the bathrooms and assign one person to monitor the cameras.


Done and at some schools they are monitoring them all day.


And? How is it working? Is it effective?
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 13:28     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:I went to a rough high school and we had no doors on our bathrooms. There was NEVER any toilet paper (it was always in the toilet flooding it) and soap was non existent. They took our mirrors out too so we weren't clogging the bathrooms up. Everyone just brought their own toilet paper and soap.

Maybe they need to take the doors off bathrooms. Or only allow bathroom breaks in between classes when they can be monitored easier. The bathrooms are trashed by kids while class is going on, not when they're busy between classes.


Ha ha - busy between classes.

Tell us how you hold your pee, poop and predict period leakage etc without it being a health and hygiene issue DURING class?

About 5-7 min between classes. HS larger than some colleges with classes inside and in portables or on opposite sides of school. You don't have a kid here do you?
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 12:14     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:Can't they have an area outside away from school building for those needing bathroom for other than peeing, pooping, washing hands, and applying makeup ?


Sure, why not? Let's also have a room built there in case kids want to do other stuff /s
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 12:11     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

I went to a rough high school and we had no doors on our bathrooms. There was NEVER any toilet paper (it was always in the toilet flooding it) and soap was non existent. They took our mirrors out too so we weren't clogging the bathrooms up. Everyone just brought their own toilet paper and soap.

Maybe they need to take the doors off bathrooms. Or only allow bathroom breaks in between classes when they can be monitored easier. The bathrooms are trashed by kids while class is going on, not when they're busy between classes.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 12:11     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:My child is at a HS that folks around here like to say is Ganglandia, and the bathrooms are open. The kids also have an hour-long lunch, which gives plenty of time for kids to use the facilities.

With that said, I was in a MS the other day and the bathrooms there were closed.


Which high school is called ganglandia?
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 12:08     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.


They need to invest installing cameras outside of the bathrooms and assign one person to monitor the cameras.


Done and at some schools they are monitoring them all day.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 11:46     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.


They need to invest installing cameras outside of the bathrooms and assign one person to monitor the cameras.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 11:16     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:Can the current SMOB or if next year's has already been selected bring up the concerns at next BOE meeting? What can the students who are also concerned do at this point? Write to the SMOB? Can a rep from the AAP testify at a meeting? Not that it should even be necessary but still it could help if presented from a medical standpoint.


SMOBs are children. They will fold and acquiesce to the more powerful adults. Don’t expect them to go against their fellow board members.

SMOBs are more mature than 95% of DCUM posters. And easily the match for most of our elected BoE members.


LOL
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They get their money and run. Never, ever accomplish anything.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 11:14     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:MCPS School System Medical Officer
240-740-1594
Patricia_Kapunan AT mcpsmd.org





I've talked with Dr. K about it. Her hands are tied and her mouth is closed on this issue. She's not a disrupter of the status quo.


So then useless.

How about a hearing on eliminating her position? Wasted funding could go to classrooms.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:45     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.


Shouldn't MCPS and the superintendent be REQUESTING that in their budget and then enlisting parent and community support for that recommendation?


PP thanks for a good laugh. McKnight and this BOE? Your hard earned $ went to pay off McKnight, prior to that Starr, ridiculous programs such as Leader in Me etc.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:40     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.


Shouldn't MCPS and the superintendent be REQUESTING that in their budget and then enlisting parent and community support for that recommendation?
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:37     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


25(HS)+40(MS) =65 schools
Depending on size of HS, up to 25 bathrooms: 25 x 25(HS)= 625
even if you need half of that, where are you going to find that many "monitors"?
And then for all the MS? Shortage of workers in the industry.

Contact MoCo Council ask them to budget for school bathroom monitors. If they took away SROs they should give our schools bathroom monitors.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:32     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:MCPS School System Medical Officer
240-740-1594
Patricia_Kapunan AT mcpsmd.org





I've talked with Dr. K about it. Her hands are tied and her mouth is closed on this issue. She's not a disrupter of the status quo.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:29     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


There is 20 HS alone so clearly 20 bathroom monitors would not be enough. But okay. 🙄


You could make monitored bathroom use a premium service for $20/month. Then have unmonitored bathrooms for those who enjoy vandalizing and vaping.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:28     Subject: Secondary school BATHROOMS

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:In addition to physical limitations (closing facilities) many schools also limit numbers of passes for students. I counted what my child is "entitled to" based on the policies at his school and he can go 5x/class during a marking period, and has 7 classes, so he can go to the bathroom 35/45 days. I guess the other days he just has to go during lunch or hold it.

I have given him permission to just leave the room if he's denied access to a bathroom and needs it. I'll deal with the discipline. His doctor is willing to write a note because my kid has suffered from health consequences related to holding pee and poop before.


+1 we ended up in the ER due to blockage from DC holding it too much.

It really makes me mad that all kids are being punished for the actions of a few. If those kids want to vape, let them vape their little hearts out. Why should my kid be punished for the bad things those kids do?


That’s just the way things are now in Montgomery County.

The Fallsgrove Panera had to quit leaving coffee cups out because people were stealing them. It’s a pain for both staff and customers who used to use them.

Our Giant had to lock the second set of doors because of too much shoplifting where people would just take stuff and walk right out. Again, more hassle for people.

We have created a culture where nobody follows rules anymore here in Montgomery County (people ignore housing codes, residency requirments for school attendance, immigration rules) and it’s accepted and embraced.

There are rules in place for expected behavior in high school bathrooms. But those rules are universally ignored and the bathrooms are a sh&tshow, so it’s easier to just close them.


I went to buy my kid a Panera gift card for Christmas. They didn't have any gift cards -- people had stolen them all. They hadn't even been activated -- people are just jerks.


MCPS already has rules in place with its Code of Conduct. Students are expected to behave appropriately in bathrooms.

But that is not happening. The kids have learned that they can ignore the rules (just like adults do) and get away with it.

What else can schools do? MCPS would prefer to spend money on random initiatives, versus hire more staff. It’s kind of a mess. Easier to just close bathrooms.


How about informing students/families it'll go on student's school record if vandalizing, inappropriate behaviors inside school etc.? Can a school social worker, if within their job description, visit student's home to talk to caretaker if caretaker is not responding to school admin's calls or messages?


Vandalizing public property is already a crime that should be prosecuted by the county.


How do you expect schools to investigate an incident of vandalism in the bathroom? How can they prove who vandalized a particular bathroom stall? How can a school prove that a kid was smoking weed in a restroom?

There is not enough security staff in schools to do this. And cameras in bathrooms are not a viable option.


Here's a thought. Pull back the one million dollars that was spent on letting you know where the bus is and hire 20 bathroom monitors.


seems like a perfect job for armed SROs! They can guard the county's investment in toilets.