Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
This. I can believe that in many private schools, the instruction and expectations are rigorous. But the amount of hand-holding is immense (especially if something goes wrong.) I know of two families whose boys were indeed coddled extensively to get them to graduate and into college.
We are in k-8 and the coddling is extensive. 1/2 class gets outside tutoring in some way throughout the year. This is not an exaggeration. I suspect it is the reason families chose the k-8 because kids needed something extra. Mine does not but it does affect the class & the learning. To comment on the comment about gender, our private is known for it's large lgbtqxyz and beyond. Another reason I believe parents send kids there. All this is to say, the publics may doing better overall with college admissions but the privates are here to serve kids in a different way perhaps public cannot. And college acceptance most likely does not have to do with it. With that said, it's also important to note, most of these kids couldn't hang in a public in a way that a mainstream kid could. And our k-8 is not a special needs school, it is a progressive & welcoming school that people who want some extra cushion or let's say coddling for their kid. And who can blame them. It's a harsh world out there.
“The publics may doing better overall with college admissions.”
Walls may be doing better than some privates, but it’s certainly not doing better than Sidwell, WIS, Holton, or GDS. Do your research before simply regurgitating what you’ve read here on DCUM.
Though this thread started by targeting SWW, this PP said “publics,” not SWW specifically. So insecure!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
This. I can believe that in many private schools, the instruction and expectations are rigorous. But the amount of hand-holding is immense (especially if something goes wrong.) I know of two families whose boys were indeed coddled extensively to get them to graduate and into college.
We are in k-8 and the coddling is extensive. 1/2 class gets outside tutoring in some way throughout the year. This is not an exaggeration. I suspect it is the reason families chose the k-8 because kids needed something extra. Mine does not but it does affect the class & the learning. To comment on the comment about gender, our private is known for it's large lgbtqxyz and beyond. Another reason I believe parents send kids there. All this is to say, the publics may doing better overall with college admissions but the privates are here to serve kids in a different way perhaps public cannot. And college acceptance most likely does not have to do with it. With that said, it's also important to note, most of these kids couldn't hang in a public in a way that a mainstream kid could. And our k-8 is not a special needs school, it is a progressive & welcoming school that people who want some extra cushion or let's say coddling for their kid. And who can blame them. It's a harsh world out there.
“The publics may doing better overall with college admissions.”
Walls may be doing better than some privates, but it’s certainly not doing better than Sidwell, WIS, Holton, or GDS. Do your research before simply regurgitating what you’ve read here on DCUM.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
This. I can believe that in many private schools, the instruction and expectations are rigorous. But the amount of hand-holding is immense (especially if something goes wrong.) I know of two families whose boys were indeed coddled extensively to get them to graduate and into college.
We are in k-8 and the coddling is extensive. 1/2 class gets outside tutoring in some way throughout the year. This is not an exaggeration. I suspect it is the reason families chose the k-8 because kids needed something extra. Mine does not but it does affect the class & the learning. To comment on the comment about gender, our private is known for it's large lgbtqxyz and beyond. Another reason I believe parents send kids there. All this is to say, the publics may doing better overall with college admissions but the privates are here to serve kids in a different way perhaps public cannot. And college acceptance most likely does not have to do with it. With that said, it's also important to note, most of these kids couldn't hang in a public in a way that a mainstream kid could. And our k-8 is not a special needs school, it is a progressive & welcoming school that people who want some extra cushion or let's say coddling for their kid. And who can blame them. It's a harsh world out there.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is pretty shocking to see the SWW hate here. The school has crappy facilities, the students aren’t coddled, and the school still must contend with DCPS bureaucracy. And lots of their families there can’t afford to go to the schools you drool over, even though their kids get in. If kids can navigate all that and still end up at Cornell or Yale, good for them! Even more impressive are the kids who got full rides or massive amounts of merit aid to highly regarded schools. Walls is a rare DCPS success story. Anyone who pays taxes in the city should celebrate this.
That's the major difference and the story doesn't fit the narrative. I really wish SWW did some coddling. It's almost like Lord of the FliesThey have been sending kids to top schools for years. So this is nothing new. Colleges know exactly what SWW produces so they must like the product.
Let’s see if colleges continue to like the grade-inflated Walls product. Seven admits to Ivy/Ivy equivalent colleges (out of 150-160 students) isn’t an impressive result—especially for an academic magnet school.
Tis..Tis...Ivy or no Ivy is not goal for the majority and that's a fact. Significant merit based aid is what a lot of families look hope for. The SWW kids are getting a lot of merit based aid. No one knows how many kids got admitted to which schools. People just know what's made public.
Yes, I understand that Walls’ student body, on average, is far less wealthy than the families of top DC private school students. I also know that (officially) Ivies only offer need-based aid. The statement still stands. Are graduates with grade-inflated transcripts (at Walls, JR, any public school) being set up for failure when they’re admitted to highly selective colleges? They will be competing with students who are much better prepared, and that can have a huge negative effect.
Yes I am sure the grads from the selective public magnet in a highly educated city are STRUGGLING in college. Come on. Your sour grapes are interfering with your thought process.
My daughter from BCC to HYP has no struggle. Her HYP from Walls, also at Yale no struggle. (not id because it's her private biz) What is the matter with you all thinking public kids are struggling compared to private? I know two private kids in therapy right now dealing with stress. The parents are causing it and should probably go.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
This. I can believe that in many private schools, the instruction and expectations are rigorous. But the amount of hand-holding is immense (especially if something goes wrong.) I know of two families whose boys were indeed coddled extensively to get them to graduate and into college.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is pretty shocking to see the SWW hate here. The school has crappy facilities, the students aren’t coddled, and the school still must contend with DCPS bureaucracy. And lots of their families there can’t afford to go to the schools you drool over, even though their kids get in. If kids can navigate all that and still end up at Cornell or Yale, good for them! Even more impressive are the kids who got full rides or massive amounts of merit aid to highly regarded schools. Walls is a rare DCPS success story. Anyone who pays taxes in the city should celebrate this.
That's the major difference and the story doesn't fit the narrative. I really wish SWW did some coddling. It's almost like Lord of the FliesThey have been sending kids to top schools for years. So this is nothing new. Colleges know exactly what SWW produces so they must like the product.
Let’s see if colleges continue to like the grade-inflated Walls product. Seven admits to Ivy/Ivy equivalent colleges (out of 150-160 students) isn’t an impressive result—especially for an academic magnet school.
Tis..Tis...Ivy or no Ivy is not goal for the majority and that's a fact. Significant merit based aid is what a lot of families look hope for. The SWW kids are getting a lot of merit based aid. No one knows how many kids got admitted to which schools. People just know what's made public.
Yes, I understand that Walls’ student body, on average, is far less wealthy than the families of top DC private school students. I also know that (officially) Ivies only offer need-based aid. The statement still stands. Are graduates with grade-inflated transcripts (at Walls, JR, any public school) being set up for failure when they’re admitted to highly selective colleges? They will be competing with students who are much better prepared, and that can have a huge negative effect.
Yes I am sure the grads from the selective public magnet in a highly educated city are STRUGGLING in college. Come on. Your sour grapes are interfering with your thought process.
Anonymous wrote:You really want to push back on this legacy hook idea, don’t you? Acc to the Harvard paper itself, all things being equal, legacy applicants have an appreciable advantage over non-legacy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
That is rare, and you will find the same rare over the top behaviors among public school parents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I love how no one on this thread seems to have read the article.
Walls staff, teachers, and staff all realize that the massive grade inflation that occurred at DCPS and especially Walls during the pandemic is a bad thing. This is going to hurt the school going forward.
Also, note that the current Walls senior class was admitted when Walls had an entrance exam to identify the best candidates for admission. That entrance exam was scrapped during the pandemic and DCPS has refused to bring it back (in contrast to DC, magnet high schools in NYC, SF, and other cities have an entrance exam).
As a result, the quality of students admitted to Walls has decreased and is getting worse every year. Indeed, the current Walls admissions criteria (which focuses on identifying a pool of 500 with the highest GPA) just rewards students who have benefitted from the immense recent grade inflation in DCPS. So, over the next few years and beyond, you can expect to see Walls college admissions go downhill as well.
See here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1125565.page.
Most privates have also gotten rid of entrance exams with no indication of bringing them back. Just like SAT requirements in colleges. Your point? Test exams are not always indicative of learning ability? You haven’t learned that yet?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I love how no one on this thread seems to have read the article.
Walls staff, teachers, and staff all realize that the massive grade inflation that occurred at DCPS and especially Walls during the pandemic is a bad thing. This is going to hurt the school going forward.
Also, note that the current Walls senior class was admitted when Walls had an entrance exam to identify the best candidates for admission. That entrance exam was scrapped during the pandemic and DCPS has refused to bring it back (in contrast to DC, magnet high schools in NYC, SF, and other cities have an entrance exam).
As a result, the quality of students admitted to Walls has decreased and is getting worse every year. Indeed, the current Walls admissions criteria (which focuses on identifying a pool of 500 with the highest GPA) just rewards students who have benefitted from the immense recent grade inflation in DCPS. So, over the next few years and beyond, you can expect to see Walls college admissions go downhill as well.
See here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1125565.page.
How can you be sure the quality has gone down? The students getting into Walls have the best grades they can get. They simply cannot do better than they have done. You seem to think because DCPS refuses to measure quality that the quality is not there. I agree the present system does these kids no good because people will make the same assumption you have made.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.
This. I can believe that in many private schools, the instruction and expectations are rigorous. But the amount of hand-holding is immense (especially if something goes wrong.) I know of two families whose boys were indeed coddled extensively to get them to graduate and into college.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is pretty shocking to see the SWW hate here. The school has crappy facilities, the students aren’t coddled, and the school still must contend with DCPS bureaucracy. And lots of their families there can’t afford to go to the schools you drool over, even though their kids get in. If kids can navigate all that and still end up at Cornell or Yale, good for them! Even more impressive are the kids who got full rides or massive amounts of merit aid to highly regarded schools. Walls is a rare DCPS success story. Anyone who pays taxes in the city should celebrate this.
That's the major difference and the story doesn't fit the narrative. I really wish SWW did some coddling. It's almost like Lord of the FliesThey have been sending kids to top schools for years. So this is nothing new. Colleges know exactly what SWW produces so they must like the product.
Let’s see if colleges continue to like the grade-inflated Walls product. Seven admits to Ivy/Ivy equivalent colleges (out of 150-160 students) isn’t an impressive result—especially for an academic magnet school.
Tis..Tis...Ivy or no Ivy is not goal for the majority and that's a fact. Significant merit based aid is what a lot of families look hope for. The SWW kids are getting a lot of merit based aid. No one knows how many kids got admitted to which schools. People just know what's made public.
Yes, I understand that Walls’ student body, on average, is far less wealthy than the families of top DC private school students. I also know that (officially) Ivies only offer need-based aid. The statement still stands. Are graduates with grade-inflated transcripts (at Walls, JR, any public school) being set up for failure when they’re admitted to highly selective colleges? They will be competing with students who are much better prepared, and that can have a huge negative effect.
Yes I am sure the grads from the selective public magnet in a highly educated city are STRUGGLING in college. Come on. Your sour grapes are interfering with your thought process.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is pretty shocking to see the SWW hate here. The school has crappy facilities, the students aren’t coddled, and the school still must contend with DCPS bureaucracy. And lots of their families there can’t afford to go to the schools you drool over, even though their kids get in. If kids can navigate all that and still end up at Cornell or Yale, good for them! Even more impressive are the kids who got full rides or massive amounts of merit aid to highly regarded schools. Walls is a rare DCPS success story. Anyone who pays taxes in the city should celebrate this.
That's the major difference and the story doesn't fit the narrative. I really wish SWW did some coddling. It's almost like Lord of the FliesThey have been sending kids to top schools for years. So this is nothing new. Colleges know exactly what SWW produces so they must like the product.
Let’s see if colleges continue to like the grade-inflated Walls product. Seven admits to Ivy/Ivy equivalent colleges (out of 150-160 students) isn’t an impressive result—especially for an academic magnet school.
Tis..Tis...Ivy or no Ivy is not goal for the majority and that's a fact. Significant merit based aid is what a lot of families look hope for. The SWW kids are getting a lot of merit based aid. No one knows how many kids got admitted to which schools. People just know what's made public.
Yes, I understand that Walls’ student body, on average, is far less wealthy than the families of top DC private school students. I also know that (officially) Ivies only offer need-based aid. The statement still stands. Are graduates with grade-inflated transcripts (at Walls, JR, any public school) being set up for failure when they’re admitted to highly selective colleges? They will be competing with students who are much better prepared, and that can have a huge negative effect.
Yes I am sure the grads from the selective public magnet in a highly educated city are STRUGGLING in college. Come on. Your sour grapes are interfering with your thought process. Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The narrative that private school kids are coddled is ridiculous.
My neighbor has a private school kid. That kid has had more tutors for sports and academics than anyone I know. He is on a travel team and gets trained outside of it 2-3x a week. They hired someone to help him with 9-grade admissions. They've poured thousands in him outside of school costs to get him where he is. That is coddling.