Anonymous
09/25/2022 23:42
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
What kind of monster says that to someone who is already going through hell?
Anonymous
09/25/2022 23:36
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
You are not well.
I'm actually just fine. I'm not the one whose mother is ashamed of her.
NP here, and wow, you are not actually just fine. That post was despicable. Something rotting in your soul, poster.
No. That pp's post was despicable and her soul is "rotting." You think it's ok to berate and tell people who are suffering that they are "awful?" I was being KIND to say that her mother would have been ashamed, because that assumes her other was a decent person. The alternative is that her mother was just as vile garbage as she is (and you are, apparently.)
Anonymous
09/25/2022 21:06
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
np or not np?
That is the question
That is the question
Anonymous
09/25/2022 20:58
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
You are not well.
I'm actually just fine. I'm not the one whose mother is ashamed of her.
NP here, and wow, you are not actually just fine. That post was despicable. Something rotting in your soul, poster.
Anonymous
09/25/2022 20:08
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
No. You are the disgusting one. NP.
Anonymous
09/25/2022 20:02
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
You are not well.
I'm actually just fine. I'm not the one whose mother is ashamed of her.
Wow.. gotta have the last word. Seek therapy. And this is a np. You are gross.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 22:50
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
You are not well.
I'm actually just fine. I'm not the one whose mother is ashamed of her.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 22:45
Subject: Middle age people are dropping like flies
“Middle age” is not a math problem, it’s a phase of life.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 22:26
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
You are not well.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 22:19
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Your posts are the only disgusting ones here. If your mother had any decency she would be ashamed of you.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 21:41
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Some of the posts here are disgusting and caring for my mother is not the only caregiving to the sick and dying and yes patients with dementia I have been involved with. And my mother's cancer was in her brain and she needed to be watched all the time for a year. I assume you made some of those disgusting posts. Get help.
Anonymous
09/23/2022 07:50
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Some people's parents have dementia and literally need to have eyes focused on them 24/7. Your situation with your mother was completely different. Only a vile piece of human garbage would type the way you just did.
Anonymous
09/22/2022 22:05
Subject: Re:Middle age people are dropping like flies
I find this thread ridiculous. In my early 40s I was primary caregiver to my mother late 70s dying of cancer. There were lots of stresses, including boss who kept giving me talks about dedication to the firm when I had to take a few hours off to take her to the doctor, and I finally had to hire a nurses aide to help me part time, which was expensive. Still, it was my honor to care for her. You folks need to get respite care and maybe some anti-depressants but stop insisting that every older parent is selfish and needs to hurry up and die. Your parents were awful? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Anonymous
09/22/2022 21:21
Subject: Middle age people are dropping like flies
My second parent died, so I'm no longer in the sandwich. It was an odd situation to be in when I am able to get senior discount many places myself.
It is startling to speak with friends my age who are all at a similar stage. Some have one parent left struggling trying to stay in their home or two parents struggling with different ailments unable to help each other. Throw squabbling adult siblings into the mix for peak stress.
I'm becoming more sympathetic to the idea of a quick exit (eg cardiac event) rather than a long drawn out decline depending on my kids to assist.
It is startling to speak with friends my age who are all at a similar stage. Some have one parent left struggling trying to stay in their home or two parents struggling with different ailments unable to help each other. Throw squabbling adult siblings into the mix for peak stress.
I'm becoming more sympathetic to the idea of a quick exit (eg cardiac event) rather than a long drawn out decline depending on my kids to assist.
Anonymous
09/22/2022 21:09
Subject: Middle age people are dropping like flies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nature is attempting to right itself as boomer removers like covid and selfishness of continuing to block younger people from jobs and wealth
Boomers will leave their wealth to the next generation - a generation that had everything easier. Gen X'tra. They always demand more than they have coming.
Except our parents all divorced, remarried, started new families, etc. nothing to leave. Lol just wish they were still here in Earth.
Other times boomers are living their money to their 55-65 year old children who in many cases have already established themselves.