Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
FYI, divorce is pretty average for marriages.
Not for UMC marriages.
You go right ahead and believe that. Bless your heart.
Less than one-third of ever-married middle- and upper-class men and women have ever been divorced.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
FYI, divorce is pretty average for marriages.
Not for UMC marriages.
You go right ahead and believe that. Bless your heart.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
FYI, divorce is pretty average for marriages.
Not for UMC marriages.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
FYI, divorce is pretty average for marriages.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
FYI, divorce is pretty average for marriages.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
FYI, 27 is pretty average for marriage.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
That’s like saying you had sex in high school and it worked out because you never got pregnant.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
I’m a DP. Married at 27, spouse was 25. We’ve been married over 25 years. What age do you suggest “works” best?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are middle class and married young at 24/25. We didn’t have kids until 32/33. It worked for us - we are very established now. Own a $6m home and a vacation home worth $2m. We spent a lot of our 20s travelling and having fun but did it together and also got into the property market early. We aren’t religious but very committed to our families
Good for you. You are not an example for overwhelming majority of people at that age. Don’t promote it like it works.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you're headed to med school at ~22, especially as a woman (because of fertility), you may not have much time to date again for a long time.
The fear lingering needs to stop. This isn’t true.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Marrying a peer from college beats marrying a desperate stranger from Tinder. How is that difficult to understand?
How is it difficult to understand that those are not the only 2 choices?
People deep down don’t want “ran-thru” spouses.
That goes for both genders.
Anonymous wrote:If you're headed to med school at ~22, especially as a woman (because of fertility), you may not have much time to date again for a long time.