Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:26     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:You sound weak. She has clearly made a strategic decision by "breaking up" with you. She's playing chicken, testing to see if she can control you. She threatens that you'll lose her, banking on you begging her back. Please be strong. All of your friends and loved ones are right. She's wrong for you.

Questions:
--did she give the ring back?
--did you bring up her snarkiness about her friend's ring and the ring that you bought? if so, did she show any embarrassment about her behavior?
--how were bills in your joint household being handled these last several months? did she pay her fair share?


OP here.

- I asked for the ring back last night after she said she needed a break. She was pissed but gave it back.
- I didn’t say much about that to her.
- I paid for everything but she still and her own apartment and pays for all her personals. We have only been living together for two months. She would buy groceries and stuff for the house on occasion but I mostly paid for everything.

Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:24     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you love about her?


OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, her passion for her job, etc. So many things I can’t put down on here.


What is post nut clarity?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:16     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you love about her?


OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, her passion for her job, etc. So many things I can’t put down on here.


What qualities she has as a person? How she treats other people? How well she gets along with your family and friends? How well she manages her own finances?


right? why are some men only focused on how a woman makes them feel? big picture, man. your 'amazing sex, multiple times a day" gf will soon be a figment of your imagination. you've been together one measly year and she wants to get hitched and be taken care of in a manner to which she believes she should be accustomed. Ick. Let her go. Your post makes it sound like you are just waiting on pins and needles for her to give tell you what she's going to do. Don't give her that power. End it. Reclaim the ring and move on.org.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:16     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
How much debt she has in her name?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:15     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
How well do you guys handle your other differences and disputes?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:14     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Is this your first serious relationship?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:12     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you love about her?


OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, her passion for her job, etc. So many things I can’t put down on here.


What qualities she has as a person? How she treats other people? How well she gets along with your family and friends? How well she manages her own finances?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:09     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
you should have said, "well, if you feel me wanting us to go to counseling is disrespectful, then you would have loved when I asked you for a prenup."

let her go. she's testing you right now.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:08     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What do you love about her?


OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, her passion for her job, etc. So many things I can’t put down on here.


you mean the job she is desperate to give up to pop out your babies and stay at home?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:08     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Yeah, spendy people and frugal people are not the best fit but somehow seem to attract.

Hope you can return the ring!

Good luck to you. Glad you guys figured this out quickly!
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:07     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
You sound weak. She has clearly made a strategic decision by "breaking up" with you. She's playing chicken, testing to see if she can control you. She threatens that you'll lose her, banking on you begging her back. Please be strong. All of your friends and loved ones are right. She's wrong for you.

Questions:
--did she give the ring back?
--did you bring up her snarkiness about her friend's ring and the ring that you bought? if so, did she show any embarrassment about her behavior?
--how were bills in your joint household being handled these last several months? did she pay her fair share?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 17:01     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Anonymous wrote:What do you love about her?


OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, her passion for her job, etc. So many things I can’t put down on here.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 16:54     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
I feel like you’ll feel remorse and panic and ask her to get back together.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 16:52     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
Congratulations she has set you free to find a much better match and a much happier life. That she felt nothing was wrong and you were disrespectful says plenty. She is the one who was rude about the ring and had a complete change of values.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2022 16:51     Subject: Girlfriend Has Changed Her Mind On Every Important Issue
What do you love about her?