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Anonymous wrote:Guys, I'm just trying to figure out how to marry a partner at a law firm by 32. Seriously. That's it.

Become a litigation paralegal, get on a big trial, one that will last for a couple of years preferably, located in another town, so the entire trial team has to stay in the same hotel, cozy up to one of the partners, he probably won’t be single so you have to be okay with busting up a family, anyway, laugh a lot and appear to be very light hearted, clever but not too bright, give it a few months, sleep with him, rinsed repeat until he falls “in love” with you.

Make doe eyes at him. If the trial goes in for more than 6 months you are golden, and will be married as soon as the ink dries in the divorce papers. I’ve never done this myself, but have witnessed it over and over again, so while I might be short in the details I can tell you that it happens an awful lot.

Of course you will have to spend the rest of your days looking over your shoulder, because well that’s just the way it goes.

Anonymous wrote:Guys, I'm just trying to figure out how to marry a partner at a law firm by 32. Seriously. That's it.

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Anonymous wrote:Make your own money and become rich yourself.

How do I do that?

Anonymous wrote:Make your own money and become rich yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:Sort of - they're busy on their starter marriages. Look for guys in their mid-30's - you should be able to find one who escaped without kids.

This. Or target 50+ and willing to let you have one kid. But don’t expect them to do midnight feedings or diapers. They already did that once with their first family.

Not true based on my experience. 50ish spouse started all over with me and he does at least half of all midnight feedings and diapers and all the other hard stuff. He knows he's lucky to have me and he was very happy from the beginning to try fatherhood again now that he's got more time and money and "the right partner," as he often says. Who knows where things will go, but so far, I feel like I won the lottery because he's rich, handsome and adores me and our little kids. I know there are risks to marrying an older guy and OP probably shouldn't take them. From what I read on here and elsewhere, I probably did win the lottery because lots of women in my situation are miserable.

Lol. Check in with us in about a decade.

FYI your husband cheated on you with me for three years when you were 50 and I was 39-41, and has continued to write to me and tell me he loves me ever since.

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Anonymous wrote:Sort of - they're busy on their starter marriages. Look for guys in their mid-30's - you should be able to find one who escaped without kids.

This. Or target 50+ and willing to let you have one kid. But don’t expect them to do midnight feedings or diapers. They already did that once with their first family.

This. You’re took old for recently divorced in his 30s. You want someone 20 years older who still thinks you’re a catch.

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Anonymous wrote:Sort of - they're busy on their starter marriages. Look for guys in their mid-30's - you should be able to find one who escaped without kids.

This. Or target 50+ and willing to let you have one kid. But don’t expect them to do midnight feedings or diapers. They already did that once with their first family.

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Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.

Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.

This is so true. My uncle at 60 had one. Married a younger gold digger when he was 40 and she was 25. She went on to have another child after his vasectomy. Yes, it was his baby. So, as PP said, the V's don't always hold up. And, BTW, he is an OBGYN. Lol!

Rich men seem to border on the edge of being pedophiles. Bill gates's wife divorced him after years of presumably cheating and hanging out on epsteins illegal yacht with minors. The op is asking if she is too old at 29 for a rich man. Who would want a rich man if they think he is a pedo?

Women peak at 25, yes she is too old.

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Anonymous wrote:Sort of - they're busy on their starter marriages. Look for guys in their mid-30's - you should be able to find one who escaped without kids.

This. Or target 50+ and willing to let you have one kid. But don’t expect them to do midnight feedings or diapers. They already did that once with their first family.

Not true based on my experience. 50ish spouse started all over with me and he does at least half of all midnight feedings and diapers and all the other hard stuff. He knows he's lucky to have me and he was very happy from the beginning to try fatherhood again now that he's got more time and money and "the right partner," as he often says. Who knows where things will go, but so far, I feel like I won the lottery because he's rich, handsome and adores me and our little kids. I know there are risks to marrying an older guy and OP probably shouldn't take them. From what I read on here and elsewhere, I probably did win the lottery because lots of women in my situation are miserable.

The 50s are great; 60’s not so much. Enjoy them.

Yes, I sense that. At least I won't ever have to worry about money, and I have two adorable kids from our marriage. Not sure how our relationship will go in his sixties, but we'll cross that bridge when we get there. I used to live in a constant state of anxiety over the future, but I lost two good friends to cancer in my thirties and it really changed my perspective. One day at a time.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm mid-50s and well-off. I look for professional women 39-42 who are desperate to have a child now.

40, appear 25 in the face and body. Non white, attractive, thin body with 32dd 36" hips 24" waist.

It’s that lady who thinks people think she’s crazy because she doesn’t drink instead of because she’s crazy again! I’m gonna call you Loco Lulu from now on.

Are you on something? I drink on special occasions but what is it to you? Are you an alcholic?

No, I’m a 37 yr old who looks 22 except in my bank account tell us again about how doctors all think you’re in college

Slowly back away from the computer you are on 24/7 and get thee to a mental hospital!

Yes I’m the crazy one, not the lady endlessly trying to convince internet strangers she looks like a hot 20 something. Okay.

Someone spending that much time on the computer trolling dcum isn't a healthy person. If someone looks younger than they are why are you so hateful? Get help!

I don’t care how young you look. If you don’t want to get called out for obsessively posting about looking 25, stop obsessively posting about looking 25.

Hahaha I remember this poster too! She absolutely goes off on these threads. Ma’am, shouldn’t you be on tiktok instead of dcum with your practically mid 20s self?

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Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.

Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.

This is so true. My uncle at 60 had one. Married a younger gold digger when he was 40 and she was 25. She went on to have another child after his vasectomy. Yes, it was his baby. So, as PP said, the V's don't always hold up. And, BTW, he is an OBGYN. Lol!

Rich men seem to border on the edge of being pedophiles. Bill gates's wife divorced him after years of presumably cheating and hanging out on epsteins illegal yacht with minors. The op is asking if she is too old at 29 for a rich man. Who would want a rich man if they think he is a pedo?

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Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.

Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.

This is so true. My uncle at 60 had one. Married a younger gold digger when he was 40 and she was 25. She went on to have another child after his vasectomy. Yes, it was his baby. So, as PP said, the V's don't always hold up. And, BTW, he is an OBGYN. Lol!

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Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.

Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.