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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

I have both sons and daughters. My youngest is a 14 year old girl with a boyfriend. I absolutely always know where she is and I absolutely check in to be sure they are where I think they are. I honestly don’t get how the parents don’t have at least some blame here.

And as much as 14 year old girls are not adults and not ready for adult decisions, neither are 17 year old boys. The level of vitriol that has been spouted about this boy is awful. He’s also a kid and she consented. Most of us are aware that kids are not waiting until marriage or even adulthood to have sex so we are pounding consent into our boys’ heads. Seems like he absorbed the lesson.

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

I have both sons and daughters. My youngest is a 14 year old girl with a boyfriend. I absolutely always know where she is and I absolutely check in to be sure they are where I think they are. I honestly don’t get how the parents don’t have at least some blame here.

And as much as 14 year old girls are not adults and not ready for adult decisions, neither are 17 year old boys. The level of vitriol that has been spouted about this boy is awful. He’s also a kid and she consented. Most of us are aware that kids are not waiting until marriage or even adulthood to have sex so we are pounding consent into our boys’ heads. Seems like he absorbed the lesson.

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

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Anonymous wrote:She is old enough to consent to somebody < 4 years older than she is so it is not a sexual assault.

Good lord she absolutely is not. She is no where near age of legal consent in any state …

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

My mom absolutely did do this in 1991. I was not allowed to accept rides from seniors and she was VERY clear about it, and why that was a rule. I was allowed to accept a ride from a friend I had known since elementary school starting in 10th grade when he got a license and a car.

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

What is strange is posters victim blaming children. The young man was close to legal adult age and past the age of consent in almost all states while the victim was not of legal age in any state. He exploited his status as a popular senior with a car to force her into sexual relations she was not ready for. She is suffering a great deal.

Obviously she made bad choices, and the parents should have been more involved. But really not many parents would think they need to check to make sure that much older teens are not driving their daughters off campus every day to coerce them into an illegal sexual
relationship. 14 is too young to resist the pressure.

I am sure that many of us with younger teens will add this to our list of HS restrictions from
Now on.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Absolutely wrong: they are about protecting minors.

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Anonymous wrote:She is old enough to consent to somebody < 4 years older than she is so it is not a sexual assault.

Good lord she absolutely is not. She is no where near age of legal consent in any state …

You don't understand the law.

the law is 16 to have sex with anybody you want.

If you are 14-15 you can have sex with anybody <4 year older than you are.

And actually I think it's insane that a 16 or even an 18 year old can consent to sex with a 50 year old or even a 28 year old, that is way more disturbing than 14 and 17.

18 is a legal adult. I think it's insane that you want the government to tell an adult woman what she can/can't do with her body.

That does not mean they can always consent.

Yes they can.

You clearly don't understand consent.

I clearly do. You clearly do not. An 18 year old can consent to sex with whomever he/she wants.

Are you talking about if they are incapacitated?

What about if there is an imbalance of power?
What if grooming started at 14 and sex started at 18?
What if they are a step parent, like Woody Allen?
What if they are trapped in an abusive marriage and feel they can't leave?
What if they are a prostitute and will be killed if they try to leave, thrown in a river and nobody cares.

The last two you mention are under threat of violence. That is not "consent." Again, YOU are the one who clearly doesn't understand consent.
Yes, you can consent to sex with a step parent, if you like.
Consensual sex at 18, regardless of how long you've known the person, is legal.

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Yep if it’s VA they are both guilty of rape

No Ava RJ laws cover 15-27 year olds not 14 years olds. He would be guilty of rape not her.

Sorry 15-17 year olds

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

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Anonymous wrote:She is old enough to consent to somebody < 4 years older than she is so it is not a sexual assault.

Good lord she absolutely is not. She is no where near age of legal consent in any state …

You don't understand the law.

the law is 16 to have sex with anybody you want.

If you are 14-15 you can have sex with anybody <4 year older than you are.

And actually I think it's insane that a 16 or even an 18 year old can consent to sex with a 50 year old or even a 28 year old, that is way more disturbing than 14 and 17.

18 is a legal adult. I think it's insane that you want the government to tell an adult woman what she can/can't do with her body.

That does not mean they can always consent.

Yes they can.

You clearly don't understand consent.

I clearly do. You clearly do not. An 18 year old can consent to sex with whomever he/she wants.

Are you talking about if they are incapacitated?

What about if there is an imbalance of power?
What if grooming started at 14 and sex started at 18?
What if they are a step parent, like Woody Allen?
What if they are trapped in an abusive marriage and feel they can't leave?
What if they are a prostitute and will be killed if they try to leave, thrown in a river and nobody cares.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Yep if it’s VA they are both guilty of rape

No Ava RJ laws cover 15-27 year olds not 14 years olds. He would be guilty of rape not her.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of assumptions being made on this thread. Laws regarding statutory rape vary from state to state. 14 is generally below the age of consent, regardless of the age of the other party. There are Romeo and Juliet laws in some states, but not in others. If the boy turned 18 during the relationship, that's another level all together.

Well that is a pretty stupid law. A 14 year old having sex with 17 year old is okay. They continue to have sex but one turns 18 and now is arrested and charged with rape? It’s either rape at the beginning or it is not.

Statutory rape laws are not about protecting the girl, herself. They're about protecting the parents' child and attacking the boyfriend.

This thread is strange, the way everyone is using statutory rape laws for a different purpose.

If statutory rape laws were about protecting minors, she could be charged too, in the states where the age of consent is 18.

Yep if it’s VA they are both guilty of rape