Anonymous
Post 09/05/2021 22:04     Subject: How fast is too fast?
This will end well.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2021 16:04     Subject: How fast is too fast?
Sounds hot. They should go for it.

::get popcorn ready::
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2021 10:37     Subject: How fast is too fast?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Party 1 clearly has a pattern. Party 2 should NOT have children with party 1.

Also, is there a big age gap? Party 1 has grandchildren and Party 2 still wants their own children? So I assume of childbearing age? Do tell.


Yes, there is about a 21 year age gap. Party 1 is 56 and Party 2 is ~35.

I think it's nuts, personally. I am very close friends with Party 1 and he is not a bad person in relationships-- he can be very devoted and is a pleaser-- but his picker is definitely off. I'm close enough to tell him when I see red flags, like with his last long-term relationship...and while I don't see other red flags with Party 2, the fact that she wants to have kids with someone who will be pushing 60 is a red flag in itself. She has always dated older men, it's her thing, but still...


There's something wrong with your friend. You don't just keep picking the wrong people 3 times and haven't learned anything by 56
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2021 10:34     Subject: How fast is too fast?
Anonymous wrote:Party 1 clearly has a pattern. Party 2 should NOT have children with party 1.

Also, is there a big age gap? Party 1 has grandchildren and Party 2 still wants their own children? So I assume of childbearing age? Do tell.


Yes, there is about a 21 year age gap. Party 1 is 56 and Party 2 is ~35.

I think it's nuts, personally. I am very close friends with Party 1 and he is not a bad person in relationships-- he can be very devoted and is a pleaser-- but his picker is definitely off. I'm close enough to tell him when I see red flags, like with his last long-term relationship...and while I don't see other red flags with Party 2, the fact that she wants to have kids with someone who will be pushing 60 is a red flag in itself. She has always dated older men, it's her thing, but still...