Anonymous wrote:Men with 'staches usually look to me like policemen, firefighters, and/or gay.

Watch the college baseball playoffs sometime. It’s a thing.

This is crazy. I can’t imagine a man saying this stuff to me. I would never. You have to meet people where they are - it’s a you problem OP!

Anonymous wrote:Ask to see old pics of him, then say he looks hot without the mustache

Great idea, so long as his only pre-mustache pictures aren't baby pictures.

Ask to see old pics of him, then say he looks hot without the mustache

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Anonymous wrote:How long have you been dating? I’d not take kindly to a man who told me before we were exclusive that I’d be so hot, if only I changed something about myself. Buh-bye!

Since June. So not long Which is why I'm hesitant to say anything. I in general don't have anything against facial hair but his mustache just looks goofy. Maybe if he grew it out and shaped it into a beard or a goatee. But right now he kind of looks like the bad guy from Frosty the Snowman.

Not a huge deal. .

I would tolerate it until later and you're more serious.

At least it's just facial hair. I love and am extremely attracted to my partner. But he has piercings which I really hate in his nose and ears. I love him and they are how he expresses himself. But if I could I'd get rid of them entirely.

Men with 'staches usually look to me like policemen, firefighters, and/or gay.

I wouldn't say anything. It is likely just something different he wanted to try, but won't stick to it long term.

Anonymous wrote:Tell him cake is only served to clean shaves.

I think you meant pie would be served to the clean shaven

Has he offered you a free, mustache ride? It could change your mind.

My DH was the opposite when we met several years ago. Clean shaven but you could tell he is meant to have facial hair because he'd always have a 5 oclock shadow. It always looked a little off. I kept gently suggesting he let it grow in some. He finally relented and started keeping it neatly trimmed instead of clean shaved and still keeps that way to this day. Looks so much better

Tell him cake is only served to clean shaves.

I was dating my H for a month or two when he showed up without his mustache. His new look freaked me out so much it was almost a deal breaker. I calmed down and got used to it but I definitely did not like the new look as much as the old look. He grew it back.

Why don't you ask him what he doesn't like about you, OP? I bet he has a thing or two he would change.

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Yeah, a male friend was complaining that a woman he was dating has grey hair and won’t color it. I thought he was being a d*ck. How is this different?

I love women with grey hair, send her to me.

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been dating? I’d not take kindly to a man who told me before we were exclusive that I’d be so hot, if only I changed something about myself. Buh-bye!

Yeah, a male friend was complaining that a woman he was dating has grey hair and won’t color it. I thought he was being a d*ck. How is this different?