Good points:
Boys recruit the school unless you're on one of the better MLS Academies. (Just being on an MLS Next squad isn't necessarily high enough to be pursued by the school)
Look out of state
Look past the family "legacy" school. Our family "legacy" big D1 school in the midwest could not care less about our DS for their soccer team. We have generations who've graduated from there, taught, etc. They are almost exclusively MLS Academy and foreign players on the roster. They suck. But hey, their football team and synchronized swimming is pretty darn good!
Playing on anything south of an ECNL or MLS Next club for boys is going to be an uphill climb for a domestic boy to get a spot on a mid-major/major D1. D2 will also be tough!
Our DS is going through the final stages of college recruiting and is finding it tough. Over a 4.0 GPA, plays for an EDP/USYS National League Premier 1 club, he has experience in Europe playing at a high level (not on an American team who went over "for the experience"). Looks like out of state D3 is his best bet right now if he wants to play college soccer.