Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:35
Subject: 3 signs that it is beginning again
Took one child to Ped for yearly appt and we went in and waited. 2 weeks later had to do the same for another child and noticed we are back to waiting in the car until they call you to come in, it was empty too.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:34
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Not DC but local Costco is out of TP.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:33
Subject: 3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:1) I had to wait 5 hours to get Instacart slot.
2) DS could not get an urgent care appointment before 8:50 today. We are just going to pediatrician tomorrow.
3) Nursing home would not accept hand-delivered care package for my relative.
Thank you for these facts from the ground, OP. They are much more valuable than the innumerable data sources on Covid prevalence.
You mean data sources like this?
Virginia is mirroring the surge that Florida is already seeing. But keep that head in the sand.
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/virginia-covid-cases.html
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/florida-covid-cases.html
Virginia is not even close to the shitshow that is Florida right now. Deaths and hospitalizations are not going up because Virginia, especially NoVA is VACCINATED.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:32
Subject: 3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
The only real sign is the nursing care one. The others are just families coming back from vacation, buying groceries and rushing to get their ped appointments.
What you can look for is the availability of Covid testing! If people can't easily get an appointment for PCR tests, you'll know there's a lot of exposure going on.
The nursing home one is not a sign. They've been the most cautious of all, and each one has different rules
What's telling is that apparently they changed their policy recently. At least that's what I read in between the lines of the OP.
Of course nursing homes have started to change their rules, because they have started getting cases again. My MIL's nursing home (which has not yet had one resident cases the entire pandemic) has been closed to visitors for the past 2 weeks because they had 3 staff cases. Once they get past the CMS outbreak protocol (i.e., once it ahs been 2 weeks since someone tested positive), they will open to visitors again--but they are changing their protocol and are no longer allowing indoor visits if the visitor or resident is unvaccinated. I wouldn't be at all surprised if they make it stricter.
Would you want a nursing home to not change their rules in the face of rising cases? This isn't more of a sign than looking at what is happening with the daily case rate.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:32
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
I'm not OP but wanted to thank you for posting this. I suffer from debilitating anxiety and even though I take meds and am in therapy, this was a very helpful reminder.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:32
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
Posting ominous threads on DCUM about how "it" is happening "again" is absolutely anxious behavior. What is happening? The pandemic? That's not happening again, it's ongoing. There are ups and downs. We are moving into a downturn, which sucks. But "it" is not "happening" "again". That's a cognitive distortion that maximizes the scary things the OP wants to focus on while ignoring all the other context that makes August 2021 very, very different from March 2020. I'm not a Pollyanna but I've been living with an anxiety disorder for 20 years and have learned that you have to train your brain to handle bad news and stress. Giving yourself over to it does not actually help you make difficult decisions or weather challenging times. The opposite.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:29
Subject: 3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:1) I had to wait 5 hours to get Instacart slot.
2) DS could not get an urgent care appointment before 8:50 today. We are just going to pediatrician tomorrow.
3) Nursing home would not accept hand-delivered care package for my relative.
Thank you for these facts from the ground, OP. They are much more valuable than the innumerable data sources on Covid prevalence.
You mean data sources like this?
Virginia is mirroring the surge that Florida is already seeing. But keep that head in the sand.
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/virginia-covid-cases.html
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/us/florida-covid-cases.html
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:28
Subject: 3 signs that it is beginning again
I was just in VT, and all of the CVS' in town were out of COVID tests.
I thought that was a bad sign.
I thought that was a bad sign.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:28
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
When you resort to calling reasonable people who disagree with you “right wing crazies” the problem might be with you, not everyone else. This isn’t April 2020.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:28
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
It’s not “happening again” until you can’t buy toilet paper when you want to.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:25
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
are you vaccinated? if so, what are you worried about?
You can’t be serious.
NP. In all seriousness, if you are vaxxed what are you worried about?
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:25
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Jeff needs to make this a sticky.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:23
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
Anxiety can cause a lot of health issues too.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:22
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
are you vaccinated? if so, what are you worried about?
You can’t be serious.
Anonymous
08/22/2021 18:20
Subject: Re:3 signs that it is beginning again
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are a number of ways that anxiety distorts your thought patterns, with the effect of increasing anxiety and making it harder for you to make decisions, enjoy things you'd normally enjoy, and just generally function. Here are a few:
Catastrophizing is when someone assumes that the worst will happen. Often, it involves believing that you’re in a worse situation than you really are or exaggerating the difficulties you face.
Jumping to conclusions can involve both believing that you know what others are thinking (mind reading) and predicting the future (fortune-telling or predictive thinking).
Overgeneralization means believing that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations. If your thoughts often involve the words "all," "never," "always," and "every" you might be overgeneralizing.
Mental filtering means only seeing the negative parts of situations, and filtering out positive or neutral information.
Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes; there is no room for the middle ground and you see everything as all or none. Whatever the issue, there are no shades of gray when you are thinking this way. People are right or wrong and situations are good or bad.
If you recognize your thinking in any of this, especially around Covid, I would highly recommend talking to a medical professional about anxiety. I would also recommend maybe getting a workbook on CBT for anxiety, which will help you recognize when your thinking is being distorted by your anxiety and learn how to make adjustments so that instead of feeding anxiety, you can evaluate situations and make productive choices. Here is one: https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Workbook-Anxiety-Step/dp/1626250154
Cool. Covid numbers are still going up at an alarming rate. Even if the person saying so doesn’t exhibit any of the foregoing signs of anxiety. That’s the thing about numbers - they aren’t susceptible to right wing crazies on the internet calling them chicken little.
are you vaccinated? if so, what are you worried about?