PP is correct, Johnny is trash for filming Bao. I think the bottom line is Johnny is pretty immature (I remember Bao making a statement that they were both inexperienced) and he has a very effed up way of communicating his feelings. Which are, he’s not attracted to Bao romantically or sexually, and actually finds the babyfied behavior a turnoff. His choice of words were very hurtful but I think that’s what he was trying to articulate (at Pastor Cal’s urging). Bao needs to treat him like the f$ck boy he is - i cringed watching her rub his knee as he was saying all those hurtful things to her, and later that night when she apologized for making him feel that way! Girl! 🙄 Johnny needs to grow up. I will say though, I do agree with him that when woman do that baby act it’s not sexy or attractive. Also, I think some of those shots they showed were unfair. I mean c’mon, the hammock thing was just her having fun. I wonder if production asked for examples or if they picked those on their own. Because I understood what Johnny was trying to get at when he described her way of asking for a kiss.

I don't know what to think about Michaela. The way she slammed that thing on the table when she realized Zack left. Does she have anger issues? And the way she was squinting her eyes when he was complimenting her during their conversation with Pastor Cal. I’m a little scared of her! 😬😂 I will say though, I think it’s BS that Zack fell asleep with his dog accidentally. This was their first time spending time together since their wedding, right? Nah, bro, no way he didn’t sleep with his dog on purpose. And then to just leave without a note or a text. Not sure what to think of them yet. I need to see more.

I don’t blame Gil for telling Myrla he would ask for a divorce if they hadn’t kissed by decision day. Who they hell does she think she is? It’s absurd he even needs to say that. Gil is playing nicey nicey now, but eventually he’s going to get sick of her stank attitude.

Shocked that Jose and Rachel had sex already. Are they the only ones so far?

Brett’s eyes look soulless to me. Something about him gives me an uneasy feeling. We already know they will not work out and why, this episode just reinforced it.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

Of all the hurtful things that have been said on this show, that was by far the worst. Attacking the way someone expresses joy?? Bao should leave him now, before he completely destroys her self-esteem in the guise of being "honest."

It’s not about how she expresses joy. It’s about the guy’s pattern of picking apart women, finding faults and always running. No matter who he was paired with, this was going to happen. It’s not a conscious act…but it’s his MO and he checks out over the minutia.

Word. Johnny taped Boa snoring on the plane and gave that video to production. He is trash. He has used every insecurity she says she has or he perceives she has to tear her down. Did you see the look in his face after she said “that’s fine” when he told her he was leaving ?. He wanted Boa to say, “ please don’t leave, I’ll have sex with you right now”. He is abusive and his abusive behavior is a defense against his fair of abandonment. He needs psychoanalysis four days a week. Boa has her own issues as well but Johnny is a covert narcissist

Anonymous wrote:Oh I can’t stand the baby talk voice. Brianna from last season used to do it.

Brianna totally was a baby talker, and it was so grating. I can absolutely see how it's a complete turnoff. I don't know how anyone could be attracted it, to be honest.

Oh I can’t stand the baby talk voice. Brianna from last season used to do it.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

Of all the hurtful things that have been said on this show, that was by far the worst. Attacking the way someone expresses joy?? Bao should leave him now, before he completely destroys her self-esteem in the guise of being "honest."

Johnny is a jerk, for sure. A repeat offender jerk.

But when grown women do the baby talk thing, it's seriously weird and creepy. Always. Unless you're talking to a little kid, or your dog or cat. I say this as a fellow woman.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

Of all the hurtful things that have been said on this show, that was by far the worst. Attacking the way someone expresses joy?? Bao should leave him now, before he completely destroys her self-esteem in the guise of being "honest."

It’s not about how she expresses joy. It’s about the guy’s pattern of picking apart women, finding faults and always running. No matter who he was paired with, this was going to happen. It’s not a conscious act…but it’s his MO and he checks out over the minutia.

I may be misremembering but on the honeymoon didn't he set up a picnic for her to say he liked her...and wasn't he giddy when she said yes? Oy. These two seemed really well matched and neither seemed to be in this for reality TV fame.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

Of all the hurtful things that have been said on this show, that was by far the worst. Attacking the way someone expresses joy?? Bao should leave him now, before he completely destroys her self-esteem in the guise of being "honest."

It’s not about how she expresses joy. It’s about the guy’s pattern of picking apart women, finding faults and always running. No matter who he was paired with, this was going to happen. It’s not a conscious act…but it’s his MO and he checks out over the minutia.

Johnny is a weird dude.

And Myrla's stand-offishness toward the dog would be a deal breaker. That pup was a big sweetie!

Anonymous wrote:Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

Of all the hurtful things that have been said on this show, that was by far the worst. Attacking the way someone expresses joy?? Bao should leave him now, before he completely destroys her self-esteem in the guise of being "honest."

Johnny needs to be in therapy, not on MAFS. I'm floored that he basically said Bao's happiness is unattractive to him. There's no coming back from that.

I don't think Johnny was expercint her to shower 3x a day. I think he was grossed out at her showering 3x a week, not showering after working out, and gong to bed in street clothes. I agree with him.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny's focus on showering two or three times a day is excessive. A little sweat on the sheets isn't going to kill him. Is he going to get up and wash the bedding immediately after having sex each time?

I get this point…but showering 3x a week is gross.

Yeah, but I'm not sure exactly where the line is. Over the years, I've found myself showering anywhere from 5x/week to 12x/week. The 5x is skipping the entire weekend (which is a little on the gross side -- but skipping one day on the weekend doesn't strike me as revolting) then showering every morning before work. The 12x would be when I was showering for work then working out in the afternoon or evening and showering after that.

The line is definitely before 3x a week. To do that, you have to go at least 2 days in a row at some point without showering.

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Anonymous wrote:Johnny's focus on showering two or three times a day is excessive. A little sweat on the sheets isn't going to kill him. Is he going to get up and wash the bedding immediately after having sex each time?

I get this point…but showering 3x a week is gross.

Yeah, but I'm not sure exactly where the line is. Over the years, I've found myself showering anywhere from 5x/week to 12x/week. The 5x is skipping the entire weekend (which is a little on the gross side -- but skipping one day on the weekend doesn't strike me as revolting) then showering every morning before work. The 12x would be when I was showering for work then working out in the afternoon or evening and showering after that.

Anonymous wrote:Johnny's focus on showering two or three times a day is excessive. A little sweat on the sheets isn't going to kill him. Is he going to get up and wash the bedding immediately after having sex each time?

I get this point…but showering 3x a week is gross.

Johnny's focus on showering two or three times a day is excessive. A little sweat on the sheets isn't going to kill him. Is he going to get up and wash the bedding immediately after having sex each time?