Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 13:05     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
No, you didn't need to say it when you sat down. I agree that was tacky of him to say. I always pick up the check on the third date but I don't say it off the bat!
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 12:39     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Gift him the booty-hole.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 12:29     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Why didn't you just say its on me right at the start? Were you waiting to surprise him when the check came?!


I agree. You should've said it as soon as you sat down. Or even when you were planning the date.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 12:11     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting


Wow. That is presumptuous of him. And rude. EVEN though you were planning on paying. Wow. Hope he didn't get that BJ.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 11:54     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting

Why didn't you just say its on me right at the start? Were you waiting to surprise him when the check came?!
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 10:32     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:OP here. To be clear, I planned on picking up the tab, he just didn’t give me a chance too.


Yep, that's tacky. It's kind of like if you went out with a girlfriend for her birthday- she would never say that when the check came out of politeness so I don't think he gets a pass unless he was spectacularly drunk.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 07:41     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
OP here. To be clear, I planned on picking up the tab, he just didn’t give me a chance too.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 06:55     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Tactless comment on his part.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 05:06     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting


I would have picked up the tab since it was his birthday.


+1 he treated the first two dates, pick up the tab lady.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 03:53     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting


I would have picked up the tab since it was his birthday.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2021 03:25     Subject: Re:Token Birthday Gift for Man
OP here with an update. We went to dinner. At dinner he said…..so are you treating? I was really turned off by the prompting
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 23:22     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
3rd date… wish him happy birthday with a hug, pay him extra attention at dinner, and offer to treat. If he won’t let you then maybe take him to drinks or dessert after. Just enjoy the time.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 23:03     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
no gift. No card. Just say hbd. Don’t be too thirsty.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 22:39     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Anonymous wrote:Easy. BJ.


Damn. That would be awesome. I just turned 50 and would have love that. Sigh.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:20     Subject: Token Birthday Gift for Man
Bonsai Tree