Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 18:18     Subject: Re:My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:There's health benefits in complaining, someone told me once.


You pay for a therapist. Your friends Will likely start to feel every encounter with you is a therapy session. Stop wasting everyone’s time with your basic Betty nonsense. Go fix your relationship or shut up.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 17:18     Subject: Re:My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
There's health benefits in complaining, someone told me once.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 17:16     Subject: Re:My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
My friends and I do not spouse bash.

My husband and I made a point to never talk ill of one another to others.

I can’t stand hearing spouses go on and on about how awful their husband/wife is. It’s uncomfortable and none of my good friends do that.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 17:14     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:Your wife is cheating.


+1
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 17:02     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Your wife is cheating.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:56     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Misery loves company. If you’re a woman and you’re complaining about your husband you’re miserable. Not everyone agrees with your one sided viewpoint. If the person you’re talking to looks bored change the subject.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:55     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's a blood sport for bored suburban women across the land. There's nothing they enjoy more than up-upping each other on who's married to the biggest doofus.


I'm a bored suburban woman and this does not match my experience at all. Maybe it's a rich person thing?


Midwestern women possess this trait.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:37     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:It's a blood sport for bored suburban women across the land. There's nothing they enjoy more than up-upping each other on who's married to the biggest doofus.


I'm a bored suburban woman and this does not match my experience at all. Maybe it's a rich person thing?
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:36     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:It's a blood sport for bored suburban women across the land. There's nothing they enjoy more than up-upping each other on who's married to the biggest doofus.


Yes, this & assorted methods of attaining body dysmorphia I mean thinness through any means necessary
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:33     Subject: Re:My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
It really matters what she's been saying. You need to include that if you want decent advice.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:26     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
It's a blood sport for bored suburban women across the land. There's nothing they enjoy more than up-upping each other on who's married to the biggest doofus.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:21     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:Even the best husband sucks. If a woman friend never complains about her husband I get rid of her. We have to support each other in managing spousal misery.


I've been married for 15 years and my DH is amazing. You would have to drop me b.c I don't join in the husband trashing. Perhaps it's because I had a horrible first husband so I appreciate the good one I have currently IDK.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 16:06     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
And…? Is water wet?
I like that Randy Travis song… old guys sit and talk about the weather and the women sit and talk about old men…
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 15:17     Subject: My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is a woman in our friend group who is notoriously annoying with the complaining of her husband. The topic of conversation leads back to how unhappy she is in her marriage. The broken record of conversation has become embarrassing to be around with other people. You should confront her directly. Her friends are tired of the pity party.


Or they all complain about their spouses, and there's one tattletale in the group who's trying to start some drama.



Wish this were the case. She’s a train wreck.
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2021 13:18     Subject: Re:My wife talks bad about me to her friends but treats me normal…
My friends and I would get together to complain about our H and when we returned we banged our H because we were so happy not to be married to the other H’s. 😂

If the mutual friend is a female she’s lying to drive a wedge in your marriage.