Anonymous
Post 07/28/2021 15:11     Subject: Re:Does your libido decrease when you feel unattractive?

Do you have an eating disorder, OP?

"Unattractive" isn't a feeling. It also isn't an objective fact. I'm not sure how I feel about "body positivity at any size," but a 20lb weight gain should not throw you for such a loop that it destroys your marriage and your sense of self-worth. That's not normal.
Anonymous
Post 07/28/2021 13:58     Subject: Does your libido decrease when you feel unattractive?

Anonymous wrote:This is basically the largest predictor of my libido. I started strength training regularly and it shot through the roof. I think I’m wearing my DH out LOL.


+1. My wife started lifting and eating better. She looks great - lean, tone and healthy looking. Her libido has gone through the roof. It’s been the most sex we’ve had in our relationship.