Anonymous wrote:If you have permission it is ok. However, for me it sounds exhausting to have a successful marriage and manage some relationship on the side.

I managed it quite well with little drama at all. I do remember buying two big arrangements of flowers on Valentines day the the lady at check out says, oh, you have two lovers? Must get expensive.

I told her, you have no idea.

Anonymous wrote:If you have permission it is ok. However, for me it sounds exhausting to have a successful marriage and manage some relationship on the side.

Gay men can have sex for sport. Women require a lot of emotional support to have sex and keep having sex. If you are just looking for another woman to have sex with and that's it, they are called unicorns for a reason. Rumored to exist but no one's every actually met one.

The idea sounds nice but on the practical side it just seems it can get so messy.

Man here, I would be totally fine if my wife wanted to explore with another woman. That's super hot.

Of course, I'd be hoping for a threesome and hoping for my own hall pass. But every man hopes for those things regardless of their wife being open to it.

Go for it.

I don't really understand what being bisexual has to do with it. Is he only open to you dating other women? Or can you date anyone you feel attracted to? Is he going to date others as well?

Anonymous wrote:If you have permission it is ok. However, for me it sounds exhausting to have a successful marriage and manage some relationship on the side.

Me too. It sounds like a lot of drama.

Nope. Not the type to be able to do so. Are you the type that can do it? Only you know.

Never.

23-years together and good sex life.

OP don't start that nonsense when you have a young child. Either get divorced, or stay with your husband. You chose to have a family, don't now decide to go down some dysfunctional path. It's not fair to your husband or daughter. Sadly, he is probably afraid you are going to divorce him, and why he brought up this option. Get some counseling.

If you have permission it is ok. However, for me it sounds exhausting to have a successful marriage and manage some relationship on the side.

No thanks

Yes, I absolutely would, so long as we were on same page about it.

I did it with W's permission and encouragement. Worked out much better than expected.

Nope. Not interested.

Yes. Doing it now. Many of the people we are meeting have opened up recently.

It's just going to get more and more common and acceptable.