Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t judge or care, and I don’t comment.

But I also don’t bring flowers, gush over the results, or treat the person who elected to go under the knife the same as someone who had to get surgery. No, I’m not going to text to wish you luck, check in on you, or listen to your litany of complaints about soreness/bruising/having to wear a brace or some type of supportive device, etc. No, I’m not volunteering to bring a meal or whatever. You get no support or special attention. I save that for people who HAD to go through surgery. I really don’t give an eff how it went, or if you are happy with the results.

+1. I took myself off of a text chain that a friend started about her elective surgery. She also told all about Herrrrrr Jourrrnneeeeyyyyy on social media, complete with its own hashtag. Gross.

What kind of surgery?

A breast lift/reduction. I suspect also some lipo around her midsection. Like, do what you want to do. But I don’t want to hear about your “recovery.”

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I rather think those who get it are jealous of those of us who don’t need it. Hence, their willingness to go to great expense and risk to look more like us.

I disagree.
I always had great breasts. Full c cup. My friend was flat as a board and got implants. She has a small d cup but hera are so full and dont sag. Mine are saggy. My breasts were far superior before and now hers are....
Your logic is flawed

Anonymous wrote:No jealousy, just pity.

You're either insecure or you're in an industry that links your looks to your income. Neither is a very desirable situation.

Anonymous wrote:I rather think those who get it are jealous of those of us who don’t need it. Hence, their willingness to go to great expense and risk to look more like us.

Anonymous wrote:I rather think those who get it are jealous of those of us who don’t need it. Hence, their willingness to go to great expense and risk to look more like us.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are really only two answers to this question:

1. It is not jealousy, it is judgment. Some people think that spending money on plastic surgery is a dumb decision- shallow and vain, and risky given so many bad results.
2. It is envy. Some people would probably get plastic surgery but they don't think they have the money for it.

It is really not complicated.

But that does not make sense. I have a lot of money. The cost is inconsequential.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t judge or care, and I don’t comment.

But I also don’t bring flowers, gush over the results, or treat the person who elected to go under the knife the same as someone who had to get surgery. No, I’m not going to text to wish you luck, check in on you, or listen to your litany of complaints about soreness/bruising/having to wear a brace or some type of supportive device, etc. No, I’m not volunteering to bring a meal or whatever. You get no support or special attention. I save that for people who HAD to go through surgery. I really don’t give an eff how it went, or if you are happy with the results.

+1. I took myself off of a text chain that a friend started about her elective surgery. She also told all about Herrrrrr Jourrrnneeeeyyyyy on social media, complete with its own hashtag. Gross.

What kind of surgery?

Anonymous wrote:I have never felt jealous of someone else getting plastic surgery. I view it as a personal decision that has nothing to do with me.

However, I have had a friend get upset that I did not sufficiently compliment her new nose job. I don't know, I felt awkward. It looks nice, which is what I said. I think she wanted me to gush, which is not who I am as a person.

If you are going to get plastic surgery, do it for yourself. Some people will criticize, some will be jealous, some will think it looks bad, whatever. Don't expect people to fall all over themselves telling you how hot you are. Do it for yourself or don't do it at all.

Anonymous wrote:I don't get jealous, and I do think most of the time it looks bad. I feel some resentment, though, that women feel the need to do this to themselves. Accept who you are, which is imperfect, and don't try to freeze the aging process.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t judge or care, and I don’t comment.

But I also don’t bring flowers, gush over the results, or treat the person who elected to go under the knife the same as someone who had to get surgery. No, I’m not going to text to wish you luck, check in on you, or listen to your litany of complaints about soreness/bruising/having to wear a brace or some type of supportive device, etc. No, I’m not volunteering to bring a meal or whatever. You get no support or special attention. I save that for people who HAD to go through surgery. I really don’t give an eff how it went, or if you are happy with the results.

+1. I took myself off of a text chain that a friend started about her elective surgery. She also told all about Herrrrrr Jourrrnneeeeyyyyy on social media, complete with its own hashtag. Gross.

Anonymous wrote:There are really only two answers to this question:

1. It is not jealousy, it is judgment. Some people think that spending money on plastic surgery is a dumb decision- shallow and vain, and risky given so many bad results.
2. It is envy. Some people would probably get plastic surgery but they don't think they have the money for it.

It is really not complicated.