Anonymous wrote:What did she see in him? I wonder what he saw in HER. I always thought he was way out of her league, lookswise. Classic case of nerdy plain Jane who bagged the hot guy. I bet she couldn’t believe her luck.

She’s aging better than him now though.

Yes. He was certainly out of her league when they got together. He was very handsome when he was younger and sober. And had A list status and respect in Hollywood.

Coming off from Gwyneth Paltrow and Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Garner as your wife is...a strange choice.

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Anonymous wrote:A hot, bad boy that she thought she could change into a family man

Ben Affleck is hot?

He is when he's sober. I always thought he seems like a hot d-bag. Someone you hook up with but not someone to actually have a relationship with.

DP. I genuinely can’t see how anyone can find Ben Affleck hot, except for the success/fame/money.

He’s sweaty, gross, and selfish. Reminds me of Jabba the Hut.

DP, but I think he cleans up well. Jennifer Lopez sure had him looking bronzed and chiseled - this was around the time Garner had her eye on him.

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Anonymous wrote:A hot, bad boy that she thought she could change into a family man

I mean I like Jen G. She seems very sweet down to earth but very surprised she did not see red flags. He isn't clean preppy family man material. He has a troubled artistic soul.

Who knows what she is really like either though? She might be different "off" the PR circuit.

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Anonymous wrote:A hot, bad boy that she thought she could change into a family man

Ben Affleck is hot?

He is when he's sober. I always thought he seems like a hot d-bag. Someone you hook up with but not someone to actually have a relationship with.

DP. I genuinely can’t see how anyone can find Ben Affleck hot, except for the success/fame/money.

He’s sweaty, gross, and selfish. Reminds me of Jabba the Hut.

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Anonymous wrote:Whatever. She’s traded up repeatedly and made sure to get pregnant.

Although I hate to say it, since she seems like a sweet person and good mom, I think I agree. She ditched Scott Foley (#TeamNoel) for Michael Vartan and then moved on to Ben. I feel like she was just looking for the biggest star she could get.

She should have stayed with Scott. He still looks good and healthy.

I’ve been rewatching Felicity since Hulu just added it, and he really was (and is!) so handsome!

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Anonymous wrote:A hot, bad boy that she thought she could change into a family man

Ben Affleck is hot?

He is when he's sober. I always thought he seems like a hot d-bag. Someone you hook up with but not someone to actually have a relationship with.

Anonymous wrote:A hot, bad boy that she thought she could change into a family man

Ben Affleck is hot?

What did she see in him? I wonder what he saw in HER. I always thought he was way out of her league, lookswise. Classic case of nerdy plain Jane who bagged the hot guy. I bet she couldn’t believe her luck.

She’s aging better than him now though.

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Anonymous wrote:Whatever. She’s traded up repeatedly and made sure to get pregnant.

Although I hate to say it, since she seems like a sweet person and good mom, I think I agree. She ditched Scott Foley (#TeamNoel) for Michael Vartan and then moved on to Ben. I feel like she was just looking for the biggest star she could get.

Ben is way better looking than she is. Also she only dates celebrities.

Absurdity! Garner could turn every guy’s head. Most women wouldn’t even notice Affleck (if he weren’t famous) walking down the street. And the back tattoo is ... no words.

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Anonymous wrote:Whatever. She’s traded up repeatedly and made sure to get pregnant.

Although I hate to say it, since she seems like a sweet person and good mom, I think I agree. She ditched Scott Foley (#TeamNoel) for Michael Vartan and then moved on to Ben. I feel like she was just looking for the biggest star she could get.

Ben is way better looking than she is. Also she only dates celebrities.

I still think he’s so handsome 🙊so
Probably that haha

I'm not saying he needed "saving" - I was thinking he was feeling he wanted to settle down but with someone who wasn't quite as ...showy? Not sure that is the right word, but you know where I'm going. There was less of a go-go-go with Jennifer Garner. She was a star, but wasn't high wattage, constantly on the red carpet.

I do think that he bought into that idea for a while. I don't think he was boozing it up and banging the nanny the entire time they were together. I think they were good probably until after Seraphina was born. Then it started to go downhill.

I could be completely wrong, but he seemed to clean up his act for a stretch there. I think he WANTED to be the family man.

But things just went south. It happens.

I loved her reaction to his ridiculous back tattoo, though.

Anonymous wrote:she was getting to be a big star on her own around the time she and Ben met when they did Daredevil together.

I think Ben had hit a point when he wanted to settle down, too.

She was the stable, sweet, low drama woman (despite her relationship drama, which they managed to keep under the radar a bit) with a nice family. I think he may have actually needed that after JLo.

I think it was good for a while, and he was actually doing ok-keeping his tendencies in check. There was even talk of him running for Congress.

Then he fell into his old habits/patterns and it all fell apart.

Yeah. He needed “saving” from JLo so she did so by getting pregnant and staying as he repeatedly fell off the wagon, banged nannies on private jets, and otherwise showed tremendous stability due to her sacrifice. Yes.

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Anonymous wrote:she was getting to be a big star on her own around the time she and Ben met when they did Daredevil together.

I think Ben had hit a point when he wanted to settle down, too.

She was the stable, sweet, low drama woman (despite her relationship drama, which they managed to keep under the radar a bit) with a nice family. I think he may have actually needed that after JLo.

I think it was good for a while, and he was actually doing ok-keeping his tendencies in check. There was even talk of him running for Congress.

Then he fell into his old habits/patterns and it all fell apart.

I think most celebs are not equipped for marriage to work long term. I mean look at the number of celeb divorces. I think celebs have teams of people telling them how great they are and making life really easy for them, and marriage is all about striving to BE a better person and grow up and do the work. I think Matt Damon had the right idea to marry someone like that single mom waitress and not a star.

Damon’s marriage is super interesting to me. And part of why it’s interesting is just how different it is from what Affleck did/does relationship-wise.

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Anonymous wrote:Whatever. She’s traded up repeatedly and made sure to get pregnant.

Although I hate to say it, since she seems like a sweet person and good mom, I think I agree. She ditched Scott Foley (#TeamNoel) for Michael Vartan and then moved on to Ben. I feel like she was just looking for the biggest star she could get.

#TeamNoel indeed!