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Really they are both stepping out on their spouses--why should the man foot the entire expense. This is just sex---not a 'dating', full-fledged relationship. Do trash things, don't expect to get treated like a princess.

Maybe she does not expect to get treated like a princess. Maybe she is a bad girl and should be treated as such.

then, yes, trash should play for the f----ck pad. He obviously isn't trying to impress and just needs to get a load out if he's going Dutch on accommodations

I’m having trouble keeping up with this. Is it a love nest or an f—k pad? If it’s a glorified f—k pad, why? Is OP trying to put lipstick on a pig-like situation? And I stand by my original comment - the woman essentially paying for someone to sleep with her takes this low brow activity to an even lower level for her. Try to have some self respect.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Really they are both stepping out on their spouses--why should the man foot the entire expense. This is just sex---not a 'dating', full-fledged relationship. Do trash things, don't expect to get treated like a princess.

Maybe she does not expect to get treated like a princess. Maybe she is a bad girl and should be treated as such.

then, yes, trash should play for the f----ck pad. He obviously isn't trying to impress and just needs to get a load out if he's going Dutch on accommodations

Anonymous wrote:

Really they are both stepping out on their spouses--why should the man foot the entire expense. This is just sex---not a 'dating', full-fledged relationship. Do trash things, don't expect to get treated like a princess.

Maybe she does not expect to get treated like a princess. Maybe she is a bad girl and should be treated as such.

Really they are both stepping out on their spouses--why should the man foot the entire expense. This is just sex---not a 'dating', full-fledged relationship. Do trash things, don't expect to get treated like a princess.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.

+1, except dump the husband and the AP. You don't love the husband (I'm sure you have your reasons), and this AP is a piece of garbage.

ALL APs are garbage. No exceptions.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.

+1, except dump the husband and the AP. You don't love the husband (I'm sure you have your reasons), and this AP is a piece of garbage.

Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.

I would argue that her husband deserves better. You put down the OM but she is just as low and certainly no innocent.

True... I pictured OP as being a first-timer and naive, and the guy taking full advantage. But yes, in any event, by definition someone has to be pretty low to be a cheater.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.

I would argue that her husband deserves better. You put down the OM but she is just as low and certainly no innocent.

Anonymous wrote:Imagine if she spent the energy she is wasting trying to hide an affair, and put that energy into her marriage instead. Or went to a lawyer and faced her dying marriage head-on. But she'd rather spend her time figuring out how to lie more effectively. I can't emphasize enough the amount of hours your spouse may spend crying in the car, or balled up on the floor, or contemplating suicide when your actions break him.

But please, keep researching how to hide your love nest purchases from your spouse, who never consented to any.of this.

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Anonymous wrote:He calls the air bnb his love nest lol! Props to him tho for not doing the car with tinted windows or Holiday Inn Express.

OP is a woman.

Wait wut? Is the guy paying or the woman? The woman should not be paying for the love nest!

Anonymous wrote:OP, look up the term “affair fog.” You don’t seem to be thinking clearly. You are researching ways to foot the bill incognito to sleep with a man who is not your husband and won’t even man up to figure this sh*t out and pay for the hotel. He’s got his cake and the kitchen sink with you. You deserve better. Treat yourself, or better yet you and your husband, to that air bnb and leave the AP in the dustbin where he belongs.