Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP here about moving up. I guess I meant that the coaches from the elite side don't know the kids on bridge teams. Of course, a kid could always go try out. Not a huge deal right now for us.
Re: field space. It is hard to plan. Fields constantly move. Times change. Hard to plan. I would just know that ahead of time in case your kids do other activities/sports.
Overall, we are very happy with the program. My kid loves it.
Good points--I get it. With ODSL imploding perhaps Elite will make an effort to... I don't know... volunteer to coach the rec all-star teams or go to each rec team and lead on session for each team per session as a way to start "bridging" that gap between the two sides and get to know some of the players and vice versa--for families to get a sense of what Elite is. In theory, if ODSL doesn't come back, Elite could just say all new travel teams going forward that get formed will be Elite academy (and do away with Bridge entirely).
This would make sense for the younger ages u8-u11. Then the kids and parents can choose if they want to stay w the academy or go bridge. Bryc will always stay a small family oriented club. They won’t turn into MYS or Loudoun. At the older ecnl ages, all the coaches know what academic and professional aspirations are for every girl in the academy. Most don’t aspire for D1 but see soccer as a key part of their lives as they pursue an academic focused college.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP here about moving up. I guess I meant that the coaches from the elite side don't know the kids on bridge teams. Of course, a kid could always go try out. Not a huge deal right now for us.
Re: field space. It is hard to plan. Fields constantly move. Times change. Hard to plan. I would just know that ahead of time in case your kids do other activities/sports.
Overall, we are very happy with the program. My kid loves it.
Good points--I get it. With ODSL imploding perhaps Elite will make an effort to... I don't know... volunteer to coach the rec all-star teams or go to each rec team and lead on session for each team per session as a way to start "bridging" that gap between the two sides and get to know some of the players and vice versa--for families to get a sense of what Elite is. In theory, if ODSL doesn't come back, Elite could just say all new travel teams going forward that get formed will be Elite academy (and do away with Bridge entirely).
Anonymous wrote:PP here about moving up. I guess I meant that the coaches from the elite side don't know the kids on bridge teams. Of course, a kid could always go try out. Not a huge deal right now for us.
Re: field space. It is hard to plan. Fields constantly move. Times change. Hard to plan. I would just know that ahead of time in case your kids do other activities/sports.
Overall, we are very happy with the program. My kid loves it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is all a large reason why BRYC ECNL/pre-ECNL teams might look "poor" for boys or girls from time to time -- they never have the top talent within the club on the same team at any given time. There also is often several players playing up an age level on each Bridge team, too.
There is plenty of talent within the club across all the player pools--it's just spread out all over the place and not condensed like it is at other clubs. Things simply are run differently.
The elite academy side is very clique loaded meaning promotion is rarely accepted. Demotion is unheard of there. There is a clear line drawn between elite and bridge. Parents and coaches of elite really look down on the bridge teams and families. It is almost like how dare you pretend to be part of the club.
How do parents and coaches look down on bridge teams? Do they saying anything snarky to you? I’m guessing it’s just an insecurity on your side.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is all a large reason why BRYC ECNL/pre-ECNL teams might look "poor" for boys or girls from time to time -- they never have the top talent within the club on the same team at any given time. There also is often several players playing up an age level on each Bridge team, too.
There is plenty of talent within the club across all the player pools--it's just spread out all over the place and not condensed like it is at other clubs. Things simply are run differently.
The elite academy side is very clique loaded meaning promotion is rarely accepted. Demotion is unheard of there. There is a clear line drawn between elite and bridge. Parents and coaches of elite really look down on the bridge teams and families. It is almost like how dare you pretend to be part of the club.
Anonymous wrote:Girls bridge team parent here. Younger kid. Pros: 1) can play other sports at younger ages; 2) playing in same league as the elite teams; 3) great team parents and kids; 4) kids are there because they love soccer; 5) opportunity to play in the same tournaments as elite for the most part; 6) travel is pretty much just the NCSL travel; 7) cost is way lower.
Cons: 1) field space is the biggest issue. We keep getting crap fields and times.; 2) don't see many options to move up to ECNL if want that exposure. Not sure what to do there since my kid does want that. 3) parent coached v. professional coach - this is fine for us, but just keep in mind.
My kid doesn't even know about the Elite teams. Has zero impact on her at younger ages.
Anonymous wrote:Girls bridge team parent here. Younger kid. Pros: 1) can play other sports at younger ages; 2) playing in same league as the elite teams; 3) great team parents and kids; 4) kids are there because they love soccer; 5) opportunity to play in the same tournaments as elite for the most part; 6) travel is pretty much just the NCSL travel; 7) cost is way lower.
Cons: 1) field space is the biggest issue. We keep getting crap fields and times.; 2) don't see many options to move up to ECNL if want that exposure. Not sure what to do there since my kid does want that. 3) parent coached v. professional coach - this is fine for us, but just keep in mind.
My kid doesn't even know about the Elite teams. Has zero impact on her at younger ages.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is all a large reason why BRYC ECNL/pre-ECNL teams might look "poor" for boys or girls from time to time -- they never have the top talent within the club on the same team at any given time. There also is often several players playing up an age level on each Bridge team, too.
There is plenty of talent within the club across all the player pools--it's just spread out all over the place and not condensed like it is at other clubs. Things simply are run differently.
The elite academy side is very clique loaded meaning promotion is rarely accepted. Demotion is unheard of there. There is a clear line drawn between elite and bridge. Parents and coaches of elite really look down on the bridge teams and families. It is almost like how dare you pretend to be part of the club.
I'm not sure who continues to perpetuate this myth, but we've been involved with the club for many years and I can tell you at least on the girls' side, this is patently untrue. I know kids who left the ECNL program and went to the bridge program and they remain friends with and are supported and cheered for by the girls/parents from the ECNL teams. Maybe hard to believe (esp based on posts to this site), but most of us travel soccer parents understand differing priorities and really just want the kids to enjoy the sport regardless of which option they choose as their soccer home. We spend exactly zero time feeling superior (or inferior) to other teams/programs. Stop generating drama where there isn't any.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is all a large reason why BRYC ECNL/pre-ECNL teams might look "poor" for boys or girls from time to time -- they never have the top talent within the club on the same team at any given time. There also is often several players playing up an age level on each Bridge team, too.
There is plenty of talent within the club across all the player pools--it's just spread out all over the place and not condensed like it is at other clubs. Things simply are run differently.
The elite academy side is very clique loaded meaning promotion is rarely accepted. Demotion is unheard of there. There is a clear line drawn between elite and bridge. Parents and coaches of elite really look down on the bridge teams and families. It is almost like how dare you pretend to be part of the club.
I'm not sure who continues to perpetuate this myth, but we've been involved with the club for many years and I can tell you at least on the girls' side, this is patently untrue. I know kids who left the ECNL program and went to the bridge program and they remain friends with and are supported and cheered for by the girls/parents from the ECNL teams. Maybe hard to believe (esp based on posts to this site), but most of us travel soccer parents understand differing priorities and really just want the kids to enjoy the sport regardless of which option they choose as their soccer home. We spend exactly zero time feeling superior (or inferior) to other teams/programs. Stop generating drama where there isn't any.