Anonymous
04/10/2021 16:45
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
I have no respect for married people that cheat. The justification is always there is no sex and sex was part of the marriage contract. But life is part of the marriage contract—both spouses will work, one will be a SAHP, there will always be good and a roof, the kids will be healthy, there will only be one child, in laws/parents will not need help, a spouse doesn’t get a terminal illness or have a disability that requires family changes.
People that feel sex is a right once married just don’t seem to understand the forever, no matter what aspect of marriage. I understand abuse and divorce—that’s not part of the contract. But cheating is just BS. Grow up and divorce. For the parents that chest, would it be okay with you to see your child hurt because their spouse was cheating? Would you tell them it’s better than divorcing? Think about what behaviors you are telling your kids are okay. And yes, your kids know that something is up and one day they will put it all together.
People that feel sex is a right once married just don’t seem to understand the forever, no matter what aspect of marriage. I understand abuse and divorce—that’s not part of the contract. But cheating is just BS. Grow up and divorce. For the parents that chest, would it be okay with you to see your child hurt because their spouse was cheating? Would you tell them it’s better than divorcing? Think about what behaviors you are telling your kids are okay. And yes, your kids know that something is up and one day they will put it all together.
Anonymous
04/10/2021 16:26
Subject: Re:How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Just divorce. How do you live with yourselves being a liar to that degree? It’s disgusting.
Because divorces take a really long time (and are expensive). That sweet piece they are after will be long gone in the 1-2+ yrs it will take to finalize a divorce. Cheating is mostly an impulsive choice and no way someone who wants to cheat will just be fine being celibate for yrs while waiting for a divorce to be final
Anonymous
04/10/2021 14:28
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Pre covid we saw each other M-F at work and had sex 3-4 times per week. That's where we met. Friendly banter turned into a friendship for a year which turned into a physical affair for several years. During covid I have WFH but he still works at the office. We found ways to see each other once or twice a week. Then I got divorced, so now we can spend time together at my house. We've taken a couple trips together. Also it has helped that he has a big SUV with black tinted windows. That's made car sex fun and easy. We communicate through messaging apps that have another layer of security to get into. While married I had the apps on my work phone which was never monitored. Since my divorce I've installed them on my personal phone. He's had them on his personal phone all along. Neither of us expected this to turn into anything serious but it just works.
Is he married?
Yes
Anonymous
04/10/2021 14:14
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Pre covid we saw each other M-F at work and had sex 3-4 times per week. That's where we met. Friendly banter turned into a friendship for a year which turned into a physical affair for several years. During covid I have WFH but he still works at the office. We found ways to see each other once or twice a week. Then I got divorced, so now we can spend time together at my house. We've taken a couple trips together. Also it has helped that he has a big SUV with black tinted windows. That's made car sex fun and easy. We communicate through messaging apps that have another layer of security to get into. While married I had the apps on my work phone which was never monitored. Since my divorce I've installed them on my personal phone. He's had them on his personal phone all along. Neither of us expected this to turn into anything serious but it just works.
Is he married?
Anonymous
04/10/2021 14:06
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Don't care about this too much from a moral standpoint, but from a hilarity standpoint I do hope you all get caught.
Caught, and screwed on child custody and $$ in the divorces.
If they're that unhappy or have "needs my spouse can't fulfill" they need to be single again. Divorce already.
But they all love the thrill of the illicitness, and that won't be there with just boring old single person sex. Unless the person they're sleeping with is married.
I assume you are not divorced. This does not affect custody or a split of maritial assets. So stop. It could affect a cheater from not getting alimony. Most people do not get alimony anyway and if so, it is usually temporary.
Anonymous
04/10/2021 14:03
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Pre covid we saw each other M-F at work and had sex 3-4 times per week. That's where we met. Friendly banter turned into a friendship for a year which turned into a physical affair for several years. During covid I have WFH but he still works at the office. We found ways to see each other once or twice a week. Then I got divorced, so now we can spend time together at my house. We've taken a couple trips together. Also it has helped that he has a big SUV with black tinted windows. That's made car sex fun and easy. We communicate through messaging apps that have another layer of security to get into. While married I had the apps on my work phone which was never monitored. Since my divorce I've installed them on my personal phone. He's had them on his personal phone all along. Neither of us expected this to turn into anything serious but it just works.
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:47
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Twice a month, ex-bf husband, they were unhappy he is sexy. Communication usually phone secret apps.
You are sleeping with your ex- best friend’s husband? Wow! You are cold lady... I never want to be your enemy
Maybe ex-boyfriends husband? That sounds more fun....
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:47
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What’s an AP?
affair partner or advanced placement
Or au pair! It’s important to note which forum you are in.
Occasionally, all three:
"Help! Just found out our AP who is tutoring my kid for his AP tests is my DH's AP!"
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:43
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Twice a month, ex-bf husband, they were unhappy he is sexy. Communication usually phone secret apps.
You are sleeping with your ex- best friend’s husband? Wow! You are cold lady... I never want to be your enemy
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:24
Subject: Re:How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Just divorce. How do you live with yourselves being a liar to that degree? It’s disgusting.
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:03
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Twice a month, ex-bf husband, they were unhappy he is sexy. Communication usually phone secret apps.
Anonymous
04/10/2021 13:00
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:2-3 days a week, online, phone
+1
Anonymous
04/10/2021 12:51
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Bitter, bitter, bitter. @@@@@
Anonymous
04/10/2021 12:34
Subject: Re:How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
^their
Anonymous
04/10/2021 12:34
Subject: How often do you see your AP? How did you meet your AP? How do you communicate with your AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Don't care about this too much from a moral standpoint, but from a hilarity standpoint I do hope you all get caught.
Caught, and screwed on child custody and $$ in the divorces.
If they're that unhappy or have "needs my spouse can't fulfill" they need to be single again. Divorce already.
But they all love the thrill of the illicitness, and that won't be there with just boring old single person sex. Unless the person they're sleeping with is married.
But they’re fat @sses would have to get a job and lose their lifestyle if they were to divorce. Too lazy for that.