Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:29     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.


Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?


OP here - No, none of the above. I know I’m needy and DH traveling a lot doesn’t help especially when I’m taking care of the kids 24/7.


This is the top level of crazy. You are not just a little needy. You have serious mental health issues. I don’t know what happened to you but something did this isn’t normal.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:26     Subject: In love with FIL


That's all right, OP. Just keep it platonic.

Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:25     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.


Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?


??? Priests are totally trained for this. They handle people's problems day in, day out. They were the original version of therapists, but with a heavy overlay of Christian moral code.

Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:23     Subject: In love with FIL

Please don't feed the troll.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:21     Subject: In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:Agree with above and therapy.You understand the implications for your children, right? How could this work well for them?

Might be a tad awkward explaining why the next baby calls grandpa dad.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:06     Subject: In love with FIL

:LOL:
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 22:00     Subject: In love with FIL

Agree with above and therapy.You understand the implications for your children, right? How could this work well for them?
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:58     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.


Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?


OP here - No, none of the above. I know I’m needy and DH traveling a lot doesn’t help especially when I’m taking care of the kids 24/7.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:43     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.

About what? A threesome? 😂
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:42     Subject: In love with FIL

This sounds like the beginnings of a Literotica story.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:42     Subject: In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:He’s like your husband, only present. You’re transferring your feelings for absent DH onto him. Tell NO ONE. Get therapy ask DH to stop traveling so much, and if your priest can help keep you from acting on this, go talk to him. This is a disaster scenario OP!


No. This isn’t correct.
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:41     Subject: In love with FIL

He’s like your husband, only present. You’re transferring your feelings for absent DH onto him. Tell NO ONE. Get therapy ask DH to stop traveling so much, and if your priest can help keep you from acting on this, go talk to him. This is a disaster scenario OP!
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:39     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.


Priest are not trained for this.

Get therapy and stop having him visit.

We’re you molested as a child? Abandoned? Abused?
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:37     Subject: In love with FIL

At least this thread is providing some needed respite from the "I hate my MIL/FIL" threads. Now we just need a guy who falls in love with a dancer MIL and we done for the week
Anonymous
Post 03/29/2021 21:30     Subject: Re:In love with FIL

OP here - I think he loves me too. We haven’t kissed but we have had intimate discussions. Maybe I should talk to my priest.