Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 11:51     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Anonymous wrote:It’s not confusing or wild. You had unprotected sex, and you got pregnant.

That’s like saying you only fired the gun at the target once, and you’re soooo shockeddd that it hit the target.

Why do we have these threads like every two months? Morons.


Because every single thread on this site that deals with having kids after age 30-35 gets dozens of comments saying your chances of getting pregnant at those ages are nonexistent and that most of those people you know who got pregnant actually had IVF and just didn't tell you.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 11:49     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

This happened to me at 38. DCUM commenters will tell you your fertility is basically nil after age 30... please don't listen.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 11:48     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Anonymous wrote:I am struggling to wrap my mind around this. Somehow I managed to get pregnant at 35 after having sex JUST ONCE last month. We have two kids already and were casually starting to toss around the idea of having one more....we just had unprotected sex ONCE and BAM! This is insane, I must be no more than 4 weeks along. Has anyone else been in my situation? I am in shock, happy of course but I have a 6 year old and a 2 year old so obviously this time around the situation will be different to say the least! Please tell me I will be ok!


This JUST happened to me too!!
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 10:02     Subject: Re:Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Anonymous wrote:Yep but at 40 years old. Had sex 3 days after my period, so supposedly safe.


YEP! Here too. Was not supposed to be in my fertility window. Totally knocked up, over 40.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 10:01     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Same experience at 41. We were still toying with idea, made a baby.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 09:51     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Yep. That’s how our surprise 4th one happened when I was nearly 40.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 09:30     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

This happened to me, except I had twins.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 09:03     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Anonymous wrote:Humblebrag


Who brags about sex once per month?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 09:02     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Anonymous wrote:My second son was conceived after ONE TIME that month also.

I don’t tell people that because it paints an abysmal picture of our sex life. 1x a month isn’t great.


Um, this! Doesn't anyone want to discuss that? I am not sure bringing a third kid into a seemingly overwhelmed/not very connected marriage is a great idea, but okay ...
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:53     Subject: Re:Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Yep but at 40 years old. Had sex 3 days after my period, so supposedly safe.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:53     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

It’s not confusing or wild. You had unprotected sex, and you got pregnant.

That’s like saying you only fired the gun at the target once, and you’re soooo shockeddd that it hit the target.

Why do we have these threads like every two months? Morons.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:50     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Omg, a woman of child bearing years gets pregnant after unprotected sex!!!!

I’m shook!!!
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:49     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

People put way too much stock in the "everything falls off a cliff after 35" narrative.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:47     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

My second son was conceived after ONE TIME that month also.

I don’t tell people that because it paints an abysmal picture of our sex life. 1x a month isn’t great.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 08:37     Subject: Pregnant at 35 - had sex once!!!!

Humblebrag