A PP put it well - she is a dangerous dud (and that's putting it mildly). I would let her go immediately.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are leaving your kids diaper that full at night you are an equal issue

? Do you wake your 1 year old up in the middle of the night to change their diaper? I am sound asleep. So is he.

My kid goes 12 hours at night without a diaper change, but we don’t have rash issues. We do use lots of butt paste at night.

+1
We’ve never had a problem with the overnight diapers. DC doesn’t poop at night. We slather on a ton of aquaphor and Desitin.

Anonymous wrote:*common sense

Also OP you shouldn’t have to specify how often to change the diapers- nanny’s should know how to care for a child.

Exactly. OP obviously didn’t hire a nanny. She hired a warm body babysitter, and much cheaper than an actual nanny.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are leaving your kids diaper that full at night you are an equal issue

? Do you wake your 1 year old up in the middle of the night to change their diaper? I am sound asleep. So is he.

My kid goes 12 hours at night without a diaper change, but we don’t have rash issues. We do use lots of butt paste at night.

Slathering but paste to protect from a wet diaper is not healthy. Yes, I'd change mine.

With a child that age, I would check the diaper every hr to hr and a half.

It is so lazy for your Nanny to leave your child in a wet diaper.
Your baby can get diaper rash or other skin conditions.

Also for her to intentionally point out safety hazards is very clueless.

I would let her go and look for a more, experienced Nanny w/great references.

Diapers checks & changes at minimum every 2 hours usually in a daycare setting. Poops changed ASAP. Typically 4-5 diapers a day at daycare.

The outlet thing speaks loud & clear about her lack of common sense.

You need to change right away. At that age I was moving toward potty training and wanted the child to get used to being dry, not vice versa.

Your nanny sounds neglectful and odd. I would probably not hire a nanny who did this, and replace her if for some reason I hadn’t noticed it during the hiring period.

Diaper thing..with disposables I do not think you have to change them that often...every 90 minutes seems very frequent to me assuming no poop.

Outlet thing is really odd..

Every 2 hrs tops and after every poop. Usually works out to before and after naps and before going outside.

Anonymous wrote:If you are leaving your kids diaper that full at night you are an equal issue

? Do you wake your 1 year old up in the middle of the night to change their diaper? I am sound asleep. So is he.

My kid goes 12 hours at night without a diaper change, but we don’t have rash issues. We do use lots of butt paste at night.

Nanny here:

The outlet thing is super weird and would make me question her judgement if she did stuff like that a lot. That said, get outlet covers if you don’t have them.

For diapers, I usually change when they get up in the morning, before we go out for an outing in the morning (so like 9-10am depending on the schedule), before lunch, before nap, after nap, before dinner and then before bed.