Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, don't be insecure. You mentioned you found her quite pretty so you're DH probably does as well.

I would just let it go. If you have not noticed any red flags I would just move on. Though I would get a new nanny because I am crazy.

So for the new nanny because OP is insecure? That’s messed up. A 28 year old hot woman isn’t looking for a 40 year old dad. Nope. Nannies don’t want your old husbands.

They may if your husband is rich and attractive.

Anonymous wrote:As someone who is 28, I am 90% certain your nanny doesn't want your 40 year old husband with his two kids. Please don't fire her.

+1. Former nanny and this a million times. I’m fairly attractive and have had two moms make comments. I laughed it off because I didn’t want their husbands. Only those wives think women half their age want their husbands.

Anonymous wrote:I’d be careful. The recent story of Christopher Plummer’s death reminds me men go for younger women. Captain von Trapp ditches the Baroness who is wealthy, stylish and sophisticated for Maria who is just kind of annoying.

This is so weird I almost reported it. The baroness hated the children.

Anonymous wrote:OP, don't be insecure. You mentioned you found her quite pretty so you're DH probably does as well.

I would just let it go. If you have not noticed any red flags I would just move on. Though I would get a new nanny because I am crazy.

So for the new nanny because OP is insecure? That’s messed up. A 28 year old hot woman isn’t looking for a 40 year old dad. Nope. Nannies don’t want your old husbands.

Ruthless some of these posters telling you to fire the nanny??? What did she do?

As someone who is 28, I am 90% certain your nanny doesn't want your 40 year old husband with his two kids. Please don't fire her.

He acknowledged she was attractive. I’m not sure why that is so scandalous.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, how could your DH not have known that comment was way out of bounds? It will fester forever, no matter what. Now you need a new nanny.

What an overreaction. Is she good with the children?

Nanny here. You’re going to punish the nanny because her husband thinks she’s attractive? That’s messed up. That girl doesn’t deserve that.

Anonymous wrote:The question isn't whether your nanny is hot, it's whether your DH is hot. If not, you have nothing to worry about.

literally.

As a former nanny, I found it funny when women acted like their twenty something year old manny wanted her 40 year old husband. I remember vividly one woman making comments for her husband to make sure he covers up. Trust me, we babe hot men our age. I’m not after your 40 year old husband. Most nannies aren’t. We don’t want your husbands.

The question isn't whether your nanny is hot, it's whether your DH is hot. If not, you have nothing to worry about.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I can hear your insecurities talking. She's not attractive because she's 20 years younger than you, she's attractive because she's attractive.
You're beautiful to, bring this up with your husband.

Sorry 10 years younger

I’d be careful. The recent story of Christopher Plummer’s death reminds me men go for younger women. Captain von Trapp ditches the Baroness who is wealthy, stylish and sophisticated for Maria who is just kind of annoying.

OP, I can hear your insecurities talking. She's not attractive because she's 20 years younger than you, she's attractive because she's attractive.
You're beautiful to, bring this up with your husband.

It’s not like you didn’t already know that she’s attractive. The fact that your husband noticed and commented on the obvious doesn’t mean anything is going on or would happen in the future.