Anonymous wrote:You've got plenty of time for your kid to improve. Let him take a shot if he wants to do it, but also condition his expectations (this will take some time and work for results to come, with some frustration between now and then) and let him know there is a substantial chance for upward mobility with focus, intelligence and commitment. Suggest that he gives it 2-3 years to see how it goes. He won't have trouble making a team, and with good coaches, motivation and talent, he can enjoy himself. Key is fun and the longer view. His prior experience in rec should give him confidence - he's obviously not picking up soccer for the first time at this age. An earlier post suggested PAC if convenient, and I agree strongly. My kid was there in his earliest years, but top to bottom, the program is run with good coaching, good families, and realistic expectations, along with the acknowledged possibility of mobility within the club and beyond it. I'd get him out of a context where people are more likely to judge him because he comes from rec. Sometimes starting with a fresh slate and strangers is really the right call, but that really depends on your kid and situation.
Totally agree PAC is one of the most underrated clubs in the entire area. They develop very well in a way where every coach in the club knows every player U9-U18 by name. They have produced many college and a few pro players. They are honest with the player if they need to go to another club to get to the next level they are supportive and will help to place them. No ego and ignorance from the staff their goal is to help they player be the best they can be.