Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is a crime of Opportunity ... plain and simple.

Don’t care how ugly, stupid or crazy ... it’s temporary.

Ha! SO true!

It’s not always temporary. I’ve been with mine for 18 years now . It’s more emotional then physical but through the years those 2 flip flop a lot between needs.

People "affair down."

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is a crime of Opportunity ... plain and simple.

Don’t care how ugly, stupid or crazy ... it’s temporary.

Ha! SO true!

Anonymous wrote:My ex used to date beautiful and kind women who were successful in what they did (me included) and cheat with plain or ugly women who were a bit rough by contrast. I guess they were not likely to have high expectations of him and he was not likely to provide anything other than a fxxk.

This.

My ex cheated with an ugly dumpy loser who he never would date if they were both single.

She made herself available and provided her house so he didn’t even have to pay a cent to get laid. He didn’t spend a dime on her.

He did the bare minimum and got what he wanted.

An accomplished good-looking woman with her own career would not settle for that.

It depends. NSA, or a secret GF? My ex left for his AP and it was a lateral move, looks-wise.

Anonymous wrote:Based on observation and watching dating shows I see that men cheat on women who are total opposites. For ex, a black guy dating a slim attractive white girl whose older than him but cheats with a much bigger white girl whose his age or a white guy dating a slim 95lb asian girl but cheating with a younger 160lb asian girl.

These men have a fetish. They can get part of it (the racial difference) without fear of too much social disapproval, but they are ashamed that they like curves.

Cheating is a crime of Opportunity ... plain and simple.

Don’t care how ugly, stupid or crazy ... it’s temporary.

Man here, most of these answers are from women guessing. One of the above nailed it:

It's low hanging fruit and men in general are hungry and married men specifically are often starving. If you reduce people to desirability numbers, an attractive, successful married man who is an 8 can seduce a woman who is a 5 much easier than a womab who is a 9. And the thing is, men really are attracted and want to sleep with average looking women, and an average looking woman who is good in bed is greater than a hot woman who is a starfish which may describe his wife

What is BBW?

Anonymous wrote:This is a common myth of DCUM. Whatever makes you feel better.

+1 My AP is similar to my DW

My ex used to date beautiful and kind women who were successful in what they did (me included) and cheat with plain or ugly women who were a bit rough by contrast. I guess they were not likely to have high expectations of him and he was not likely to provide anything other than a fxxk.

The women I am most attracted to are usually not the most ideal for long term relationships, but would be the most fun.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on observation and watching dating shows I see that men cheat on women who are total opposites. For ex, a black guy dating a slim attractive white girl whose older than him but cheats with a much bigger white girl whose his age or a white guy dating a slim 95lb asian girl but cheating with a younger 160lb asian girl.

OP, is this you wondering why your ex is with a fat woman again?

I thought the same thing. If so, i's been like 2 years OP time to move on. seriously seek professional help.

+ OP, seek profesional help.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on observation and watching dating shows I see that men cheat on women who are total opposites. For ex, a black guy dating a slim attractive white girl whose older than him but cheats with a much bigger white girl whose his age or a white guy dating a slim 95lb asian girl but cheating with a younger 160lb asian girl.

OP, is this you wondering why your ex is with a fat woman again?

I thought the same thing. If so, i's been like 2 years OP time to move on. seriously seek professional help.

Because the women do sexual things the girlfriend or wife won’t do. I’ve hooked up with too many married women than I care to count and the response I typically got, “My husband would never do those things to me.” They always left satisfied!