Anonymous wrote:Have you gained weight

op here. No! I have not. I am very attractive but on the petite side.

Have you gained weight

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Anonymous wrote:OP, yeah, I get it. My DH has turned down sex once and that hurt me. But your DH was rude. It is unusual for men to turn down a naked woman. But, he could have been tired. Exhausted. When was the last time you had sex? Have you turned him down a lot? Is he seeing anybody else? Emotional affair?

OP here. Well, to be fair he had a very long busy work day yesterday and was writing for his work late into the night. So I believe he was exhausted. I just woke up horny and thought a quicky and going back to sleep would be fun for him. But alas! Not only was I turned down but so cruelly.

OP you need to use your brain a little more in these interactions. DH would have hollered too; so would I; no one wants to be woken up. And he stayed up late too! And you knew it!

Your life isn’t a soap opera show where people leap up to have sex at every opportunity. Now you know he’s not a morning sex kind of guy so don’t do it again.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. How do you think I should reach when he does wake up? Do I confront him about his rudeness? or let it go?

I absolutely would. You should ask him why he spoke to you that way and if he thinks that's an appropriate way to speak to his wife.

Tired or not- that is CRAZY. I would be very off put with ANYONE behaving that way

OMG - how long have you been married and this hasnt hapened?

OP here. How do you think I should reach when he does wake up? Do I confront him about his rudeness? or let it go?

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Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.

OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.

Apparently your spouse!

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Anonymous wrote:Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that.

OP here. We have sex maybe once a month. He is 32 so he should not be having such a low libido. I feel like I am living with a roommate and fear he isn't attracted to me anymore.

Just dump him and move on. Plenty of other, better options at your age. Who wont scream at you for wanting sex (or for any reason)

OP here. I am 33, so I am not exactly a spring chicken.

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Anonymous wrote:Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that.

OP here. We have sex maybe once a month. He is 32 so he should not be having such a low libido. I feel like I am living with a roommate and fear he isn't attracted to me anymore.

Have him see a doctor and calm down.

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Anonymous wrote:Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that.

OP here. We have sex maybe once a month. He is 32 so he should not be having such a low libido. I feel like I am living with a roommate and fear he isn't attracted to me anymore.

Just dump him and move on. Plenty of other, better options at your age. Who wont scream at you for wanting sex (or for any reason)

Wow. He sounds really immature. Especially the screaming at you at the end part.... yikes! I wouldnt be happy with this. Not one bit.

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Anonymous wrote:He was sleeping, you woke him up, he said he wasn't in the mood and you kept pressing. That is rude.

OP here. Who doesn't like to be woken up by a hot woman wanting sex? Also he was rude about it.

Maybe you're not as hot as you think. Insecurity is a real turn off.

I don’t think insecurity is the problem here.

Anonymous wrote:OP, yeah, I get it. My DH has turned down sex once and that hurt me. But your DH was rude. It is unusual for men to turn down a naked woman. But, he could have been tired. Exhausted. When was the last time you had sex? Have you turned him down a lot? Is he seeing anybody else? Emotional affair?

OP here. Well, to be fair he had a very long busy work day yesterday and was writing for his work late into the night. So I believe he was exhausted. I just woke up horny and thought a quicky and going back to sleep would be fun for him. But alas! Not only was I turned down but so cruelly.

Anonymous wrote:Does he often turn you down for sex?
I will say it's unusual in my experience. Most guys wake up with wood and would take you up on that.

OP here. We have sex maybe once a month. He is 32 so he should not be having such a low libido. I feel like I am living with a roommate and fear he isn't attracted to me anymore.

OP, yeah, I get it. My DH has turned down sex once and that hurt me. But your DH was rude. It is unusual for men to turn down a naked woman. But, he could have been tired. Exhausted. When was the last time you had sex? Have you turned him down a lot? Is he seeing anybody else? Emotional affair?