Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is happy in the bedroom he will not cheat.

^^ agree that is not an absolute BUT the odds are so low it is barely worth talking about.
On the other hand... if your husband is NOT happy in the bedroom it's about 100% that he will cheat.

Dude, after a few decades of marriage it’s common. Variety. They can be getting it good at home but it’s still the same woman. Even someone uglier is enticing at that point because she’s merely different.

Anonymous wrote:If a wife loses her sex drive it has nothing to do with her husband and how he stopped treating her like she’s really special and doesn’t help out with the house, it’s just because she has changed.

Said wife DEFINITELY ought stay (sexlessly) married to her loser man child jerk face husband who treats her terribly.
And he will NEVER cheat on her.

Is DH punching me in the face considered abuse? I can’t leave though because I don’t work and don’t want to mess up my kids lives.

Any man should be fine with once a week or once a month sex in marriage no matter how hot and heavy it was before.

Suddenly, out of the blue, with no warning at all, he told me he wants a divorce/separation. Everything was perfectly fine up until then and I've been the perfect wife. I don't understand.

It is better to stay married and miserable than it is to divorce and share a Thanksgiving holiday.

*has one fight* SHOULD I GET A DIVORCE???

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is happy in the bedroom he will not cheat.

^^ agree that is not an absolute BUT the odds are so low it is barely worth talking about.
On the other hand... if your husband is NOT happy in the bedroom it's about 100% that he will cheat.

The above is a DCUM trope.

If a wife loses her sex drive it has nothing to do with her husband and how he stopped treating her like she’s really special and doesn’t help out with the house, it’s just because she has changed.

Divorce will mess your kids up. That’s a favorite trope.

Anonymous wrote:"Declare the marriage open"

Ridiculous, and I actually have an open relationship

No more ridiculous than "declare the marriage sexless"
Either you condemn both, or neither

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is happy in the bedroom he will not cheat.

^^ agree that is not an absolute BUT the odds are so low it is barely worth talking about.
On the other hand... if your husband is NOT happy in the bedroom it's about 100% that he will cheat.

"Declare the marriage open"

Ridiculous, and I actually have an open relationship

Talking to your husband in condescending sentences that are a mix of lines from self-helf books and quotes by a therapist will help you solve your relationship problems.

A sexless wife is entitled to stay married AND expecting his fidelity