Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 20:02     Subject: Re:I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:I miss the excitement of a new relationship but I don't miss realizing it's not going to work out and dealing with an exit. I've been married a long time and we get the sparks flying quite often but I really love how enduring the love is after well over 30 years. Now I get to fall in love with new grand babies!


+1 Real love is enduring and when grandchildren arrive you realize you do have a legacy and that loving them is part of the nurturing process. And if you and grandad can still make the bed rock all the better.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 19:57     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:Watching holidate which is a romcom and its making me so nostalgic for falling for someone...the sense of hope and possibility and anticipation

of course, there's also the heartbreak, loneliness and disappointment but i'm just focusing on those magical moments right now. wish it was possible to still feel all that sense of possibility about what's going to happen with someone 15 years and 2 kids into a relationship!



You need a book boyfriend! I have a new one every 2-3 years. You get to think he’s the moon and stars, without ruining the good thing that you actually have. Right now, I’m infatuated with Matthew Clairmont of A Discovery of Witches. This follows a decade of Jamie Fraser of Outlander.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 19:49     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am lucky, I fall for my wife everyday.


What? No way I’m falling for the same old busted ass titties.

Yeah, well your shriveled up balls are also not the most attractive.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 19:01     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DH feels the same way, so he ran off with another woman.

Limerence. He did it to me, too.


He will do it to this one too. It’s an addiction.


I know. He's convinced this is real. I actually hope he works on himself and makes it work this time. We lasted 12 years -- I think he was serious for about 6-7 of them.


How does this happen? What do you mean when you say he did it to you too? How do you know what is going on are you still married? I’m sorry, OP. I’d rather bow out than twist into a pretzel. Love is not complicated.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 16:47     Subject: Re:I miss falling for someone...
Man here, I miss this too. I think it's near universal for men, although it's crudely reduced to men wanting "strange."
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 14:55     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:I am lucky, I fall for my wife everyday.


What? No way I’m falling for the same old busted ass titties.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 12:40     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DH feels the same way, so he ran off with another woman.

Limerence. He did it to me, too.


He will do it to this one too. It’s an addiction.


I know. He's convinced this is real. I actually hope he works on himself and makes it work this time. We lasted 12 years -- I think he was serious for about 6-7 of them.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 10:41     Subject: Re:I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:I miss the excitement of a new relationship but I don't miss realizing it's not going to work out and dealing with an exit. I've been married a long time and we get the sparks flying quite often but I really love how enduring the love is after well over 30 years. Now I get to fall in love with new grand babies!


That is awesome. That is what it is about. Loving your legacy.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 10:36     Subject: Re:I miss falling for someone...
I miss the excitement of a new relationship but I don't miss realizing it's not going to work out and dealing with an exit. I've been married a long time and we get the sparks flying quite often but I really love how enduring the love is after well over 30 years. Now I get to fall in love with new grand babies!
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 09:45     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:Single lady here. Very tired of falling for people. 100% failure rate. Soul-crushing. Would rather opt out all of the hope and possibility and anticipation and just devote my life to caring for cats.


Are you falling for the wrong guys?
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 08:04     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:My DH feels the same way, so he ran off with another woman.

Limerence. He did it to me, too.


He will do it to this one too. It’s an addiction.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 07:58     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
My DH feels the same way, so he ran off with another woman.

Limerence. He did it to me, too.
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 07:50     Subject: Re:I miss falling for someone...
Aww the beauty of youth‼️
Nothing beats feeling like a schoolgirl in love...💞
Anonymous
Post 11/16/2020 05:01     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:You're only 15 years in you could still get some surprises. I hear things get real interesting around 20-25 years. Chin up!


The 20-25 year mark is a crapshoot. Could go either way.
Anonymous
Post 11/15/2020 23:09     Subject: I miss falling for someone...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am lucky, I fall for my wife everyday.

Is there a barf emoji here?


My wife is funny, smart, and gorgeous. Unreal smile and a killer body gets me every time I look at her. Don’t know what makes that barf worthy.