OP here. It's not about cosmetic issues. I want to know my uterus is being stitched correctly to minimize scar tissue and adhesions. I already have chronic pelvic pain and I'm not looking to make it worse from shoddy work. I also don't want an OB who's careless with the scalpel perforating my bladder or colon (these things happen).Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What do you do that you see other c section scars? I have literally only ever seen my own. I have many friends who had them and I have never seen their scar.
This! As the on call OB was rolling me into the OR for my unscheduled c, she told me “don’t worry, the scar will be below your bikini line, and if you are wearing bikinis that don’t cover this scar, we need to talk about other things...” it broke the tension, made me more relaxed and she was also absolutely right. Only my husband and I have seen my scar.
Anonymous wrote:What do you do that you see other c section scars? I have literally only ever seen my own. I have many friends who had them and I have never seen their scar.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Perfect! Thank you for sharing.Anonymous wrote:https://nyulangone.org/doctors/1942422902/clarel-antoine
All my orthodox Jewish friends in New York use him for c sections and pay out of pocket if necessary. He is the known top doc for c sections especially if you want to have a lot of kids after having a c section.
And he's African American as well. Truly a brilliant medical mind, and good hands.
How does this work if you live in DC? Can you go to another local doctor and just go to NY with your files when you are ready to deliver or do you have to do all appointments in NYC?
Anonymous wrote:I had used Dr. Reiter, who was a very skilled surgeon, for my first C, but I think he's retired now.
I'm curious about the stitching -- for my second C, the doctor used staples. When I expressed surprise to a friend that is a surgeon, she said staples made sense for an incision like that, and she thought it would likely heal better than stitches. I can't remember why she said that, but I'd be curious to hear what other surgeons think of that. Maybe she was just trying to make me feel better!
Anonymous wrote:Perfect! Thank you for sharing.Anonymous wrote:https://nyulangone.org/doctors/1942422902/clarel-antoine
All my orthodox Jewish friends in New York use him for c sections and pay out of pocket if necessary. He is the known top doc for c sections especially if you want to have a lot of kids after having a c section.
And he's African American as well. Truly a brilliant medical mind, and good hands.
OP here. Thank you for bringing up that point. It's very true that the surgical skills of OBs are questionable. I debated seeing an MFM for my first pregnancy, but was told it was optional since my Graves' Disease was behaving at the time. I'm going to inquire about having an MFM now for my entire pregnancy and C-Section.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Seriously? I had a medically necessary planned c, my OB at capital women’s care did a great job. Just stick with your OB.
Mine did a hack job and I had complications from it. I went to an MFM for my next one and it was so much better. A lot of OBs are terrible surgeons.