Anonymous wrote:Took me a few weeks of getting to know and appreciate his exceptional mind. He is attractive by all objective standards, (tall, masculine, fair coloring)! he just wasn’t my type at all (I prefer shorter, darker, dorkier types).

+1 exact same situation

The first time I saw him and I’ve said this before. He was playing tennis in college and I was walking by the court and there were a lot of people watching him due to how he played so beautifully but with a very obvious leg disability. He made some amazing shots and when he did he had a smile on his face that was priceless. So after the match I introduced myself.

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Anonymous wrote:After a few months. I was dating someone else when I met my husband, so I wasn’t really thinking of any men as attractive bc I was taken, and his personality was what stole my heart.

Did you stop dating the first guy before starting to date your now husband, or was there some overlap of the two relationships?

No overlap.. at some point after we met I knew that my husband and I were interested in one another and I saw a future with him so I broke it off with the boyfriend. My old boyfriend thought I cheated when I started dating my husband immediately after we broke up, though, and he lashed out at me pretty badly.

Anonymous wrote:After a few months. I was dating someone else when I met my husband, so I wasn’t really thinking of any men as attractive bc I was taken, and his personality was what stole my heart.

Did you stop dating the first guy before starting to date your now husband, or was there some overlap of the two relationships?

Probably second date. He is attractive but I had never dated anyone that much older, so I had to kind of wrap my head around that since I was used to guys with a much younger look.

After a few months. I was dating someone else when I met my husband, so I wasn’t really thinking of any men as attractive bc I was taken, and his personality was what stole my heart.

When she stepped on stage for amateur night at a local female revue bar.

The very first time I saw him.

We were friends for a year first, and I thought he was fine looking, but didn't consider him to be my most attractive male friend or anything. Then one day we were drinking together, things suddenly changed, we woke up the next morning in bed together, and I realized that I thought he was really hot. And it's been that way ever since!

Immediately, but I friend zoned him for weeks.

Not right away. I met him freshman year of college and he was reeeeally shy and awkward at first. While he was always handsome, I wasn't attracted to him until after he matured physically and socially. We were friends for years and he became more and more attractive as he got more comfortable in his own skin.

When I knew she could suck a golf ball through a garden hose

Right away, and I wouldn't want to be with anyone who didn't feel the same.

When we first locked eyes at a happy hour.

Not the day I met him but on our first date. i was actually flirting with someone else at the party but then he passed out. Another guy stepped in for my attention. He turned out to be the love of my life upon the first date.