Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here, thank you all for your honesty. We've recently started looking into tutors, specifically OG trained ones, so this reinforces that we need to get that finalized ASAP. No one has said anything to us about dyslexia being a possibility but an OG trained tutor is going to be good for any child, right?
I'm a teacher but there are many reasons a student can be behind. He doesn't necessarily have dyslexia. What phonemic awareness and phonics program does his school use?
Anonymous wrote:He may not be that behind, now. The academic regression from February has been huge.
Anonymous wrote:Just look for a good, experienced tutor OP. I have taught for a long time and seen all kinds of trends in teaching. None of them are an end all, be all solution. Including OG. It’s new, it’s different and seems to work for some kids. Before that it was Lucy Caulkins and before that it was Fountas-Pinell, etc, etc. you need an tutor who has experience figuring out your child and has a wealth of strategies, techniques and experience to figure out what best works for him. And knows when/if it’s time to look into assessing more serious needs (like dyslexia).
Anonymous wrote:OP here, thank you all for your honesty. We've recently started looking into tutors, specifically OG trained ones, so this reinforces that we need to get that finalized ASAP. No one has said anything to us about dyslexia being a possibility but an OG trained tutor is going to be good for any child, right?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Welcome to a cold urban area. As someone who has a child with dyslexia let me give you my experience. Public schools are on a ‘wait to fail’ model. Their goal is to delay services - and frankly to do their level best to prevent you from receiving services. (Even though your child has a federal right - FAPE). Right now, you will be victim shamed - be pushy! Be assertive! - because it is a deeply corrupt system. And many of these folks are guilty employees of the system - they are actively ignoring your child. Here’s the deal - this is your child. First get him tested - a neuropsychological exam. See what’s going on. Then take steps to correct it. The school will most likely be your adversary. Take it one day at a time. And channel GEN Mattis: be polite, be kind but be prepared to fight. (Paraphrase there). Do not for a moment forget the public schools are your adversary but you first need to figure out what’s going on. Good luck!
You make it sound like we’re all trying to ruin their lives. We are bound by laws, rules, etc. It’s very frustrating from the teacher’s end, I assure you.
Anonymous wrote:Welcome to a cold urban area. As someone who has a child with dyslexia let me give you my experience. Public schools are on a ‘wait to fail’ model. Their goal is to delay services - and frankly to do their level best to prevent you from receiving services. (Even though your child has a federal right - FAPE). Right now, you will be victim shamed - be pushy! Be assertive! - because it is a deeply corrupt system. And many of these folks are guilty employees of the system - they are actively ignoring your child. Here’s the deal - this is your child. First get him tested - a neuropsychological exam. See what’s going on. Then take steps to correct it. The school will most likely be your adversary. Take it one day at a time. And channel GEN Mattis: be polite, be kind but be prepared to fight. (Paraphrase there). Do not for a moment forget the public schools are your adversary but you first need to figure out what’s going on. Good luck!
Anonymous wrote:OP, as a k teacher, I would be concerned about a student reading at a 6 in 2nd grade. What is the school situation like where your son attends? In person? Hybrid? All virtual? Do you know what the approach to guided reading is?
For what it’s worth, I think the reading specialist should absolutely be working with him regardless of what the format is at this point. Unfortunately, that’s not happening so...
I think if I were in your position I would:
1) get a tutor immediately (ideally a former or current teacher in your district)
2) Reach out the the reading specialist at your son’s school to ask for tips, resources for his tutor to work on. You can ask the teacher too so that you’re not seen as going around her.
3) after a few sessions with the tutor, get their assessment and recommendations moving forward
Finally, I’m sorry OP. This sounds very frustrating; you are doing the right thing by starting with the teacher and assuming positive intent. But now is the time to collect your own information.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you teacher says he is fine, LISTEN. Be patient. Your teacher knows, as they are working with your son. Just ask the teacher what you can do to help and support your child with reading.
Totally disagree. I was dumb enough to think this when my son was in first. Then in second, he didn’t catch up, and he ended up with a long term sub. Then Covid, and here we are in fourth, and he can’t read a lot of the online material.