Anonymous wrote:Just tell the starter you are caddying for your kids.

I did that once, but for my dad.

I agree with the others that you should just ask the course. I think most would allow it, if they understood what you're asking. If the course is strict, maybe you could split into two groups of three (2 golfers, 1 spectator in each group). You and your DH could even switch places at some point.