Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.

And why does that matter?

It definitely matters to me whether or not I’m turned on by my partner.

Anonymous wrote:That’s because this site isn’t representative of real life. My husband and I are very happy.

+2 The forum is vastly made up of sad unhappy women.

Married 22 years:
We used to have a wonderful sex life, we did it every other day for years with the normal lull after childbirths, we we’re down to two or three times a week but then Covid came and we are lucky if it’s three times a month.
My periods have become slightly erratic and I am worried that the end is drawing near.

We do. We've been married 15 yrs, 3 young children. Sex is pretty consistent. Anywhere from 1-4 times per week. He seems pretty content and I rarely turn him down

We’re 1-2x per week since the day we were married 17 years ago. It was painful for me (dh) in the earlier years but at 49 I’ve mellowed somewhat. We’re mostly routine but the sex is always good and sometimes its awesome (we did each other in the garage gym a few times because our teen son is home during the pandemic).

Someone above commented about fitness. We’re both pretty fit and I think it helps. Not only are we more attracted to each other but there are no body image issues to detract from our drives. Also, I always make sure that she O’s every time. At the very least, its going to be satsfying, but, sometimes its amazing!

Mid 60’s and at least once a week and sometimes twice. We did have shower sex a few days ago and I forgot how much fun that was but my husband is afraid of falling! I’m sure our kids would be grossed out if I told them that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.

And why does that matter?

If one of the partners gives up, looks gross, the desire dampens.

We workout together and are still very attracted to each other’s bodies.

If you are out of shape, sex isn’t as good.

Really depends. I'm slim and my husband is out of shape - haven't noticed any difference, i think he's as handsome as ever.

haha yes. Woman here, married 15 years, together 20. 3 kids. We have sex at least 2x a week and always have at least 1x a week, even during the baby and toddler stages.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.

And why does that matter?

If one of the partners gives up, looks gross, the desire dampens.

We workout together and are still very attracted to each other’s bodies.

If you are out of shape, sex isn’t as good.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.

And why does that matter?

If one of the partners gives up, looks gross, the desire dampens.

We workout together and are still very attracted to each other’s bodies.

Anonymous wrote:22 years married, 24 years together. Still a few times per week. We are both still very fit and toned.

And why does that matter?

I have a friend who still has sex with her husband 2-3 times a week. I don't talk about it too much with my other friends.

My libido is pretty low. I think the slog of 2 young kids + COVID has just worn me out. Thankfully my husband doesn't have a high sex drive either so neither one of us is upset that we're only having sex once a month.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That’s because this site isn’t representative of real life. My husband and I are very happy.

Notice no calms of a sex life just the wife is happy.

Huh?

Married 33 years and still have a great sex life. Sex maybe 4 to 5 times a week. I do feel sorry for people in unhappy/sexless marriages, life’s to short to be missable and unhappy.

Yes! But I will keep the details private.