I think there is a lot to be said for teens who take on activities and persist. Persistence can be displayed through many types of efforts or activities, but generally it demonstrates an ability to stick with something, recognize challenges or barriers, push through, and move on. (I might say ‘grit’, but frankly I think that term has been over-used, especially within the independent school community.)
These kids might also demonstrate “talent”...then again, maybe not. They might just be good at keeping on keeping on. These kids should not be overlooked, and should be encouraged to find ways that they can shine, and accept that they do.
There are also many “talented” kids who shine brightly, but have little ability to persist. These kids should be validated, nurtured and encouraged to find the things that motivate them to persist.
“Character” is apparent in all of these children. I suspect these characteristics, along with the development and display of critical thinking skills, are the major things that resonate with admissions counselors. I hope that good admissions counselors see all of these kids for who they are, and look for potential.
-an independent school mom who has been giving this topic a lot of thought
In other words, my $.02 cents.