Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:57
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:I asked my husband and this was his response-
-You loathe any form of drama and always stay level headed and down to earth.
-You're not needy. In the early days, I could bring you to a family party or work function and you could mingle by yourself and didn't need my constant attention.
- You always put effort into establishing relationships with my family and friends. He said he was shocked the first Thanksgiving when I voluntarily set the table for his grandma without knowing his family yet. I didn't think much of it.
- You have a knack for making a house a home. You make everywhere feel homey and cozy.
-I noticed right away you've maintained relationships your entire life. You still have your best friends from Kindergarten, high school, and college.
Do you work?
Are the women spouting all of this 'high value' crap and landing a certain type of man all SAHMs or aspiring SAHMS.
I doubt there are any aspiring Ruth Ginsbergs, Cheryl Sandbergs, Nancy Pelosis or Dr. Brix, etc. worried about this stuff.
It is so pathetic. Didn't your parents (too all of these pps) teach you to aspire to anything beyond being a housewife?
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:52
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:another one of these threads?
seriously.
Here it is again:
1. low drama
2. likes sex, having fun
3. attractive, but not model attractive, just reasonable.
4. low drama
Barbies only need apply. Or blow up dolls.
No, but high maintenance need not apply.
With the exception of a twice weekly "check up", my wife is very low maintenance.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:42
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
I asked my husband and this was his response-
-You loathe any form of drama and always stay level headed and down to earth.
-You're not needy. In the early days, I could bring you to a family party or work function and you could mingle by yourself and didn't need my constant attention.
- You always put effort into establishing relationships with my family and friends. He said he was shocked the first Thanksgiving when I voluntarily set the table for his grandma without knowing his family yet. I didn't think much of it.
- You have a knack for making a house a home. You make everywhere feel homey and cozy.
-I noticed right away you've maintained relationships your entire life. You still have your best friends from Kindergarten, high school, and college.
-You loathe any form of drama and always stay level headed and down to earth.
-You're not needy. In the early days, I could bring you to a family party or work function and you could mingle by yourself and didn't need my constant attention.
- You always put effort into establishing relationships with my family and friends. He said he was shocked the first Thanksgiving when I voluntarily set the table for his grandma without knowing his family yet. I didn't think much of it.
- You have a knack for making a house a home. You make everywhere feel homey and cozy.
-I noticed right away you've maintained relationships your entire life. You still have your best friends from Kindergarten, high school, and college.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:36
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
My friend would be considered “high value.” She is:
Charming
Sexy
Persuasive
Highly competent
Elegant
She angers easily at home. Her husband walks on eggshells. But, she is eye candy and he is otherwise proud of her!
Charming
Sexy
Persuasive
Highly competent
Elegant
She angers easily at home. Her husband walks on eggshells. But, she is eye candy and he is otherwise proud of her!
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:32
Subject: Re:Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.
WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.
Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.
Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:30
Subject: Re:Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.
WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.
Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.
*men
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:30
Subject: Re:Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.
WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.
Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.
WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.
Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:17
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:another one of these threads?
seriously.
Here it is again:
1. low drama
2. likes sex, having fun
3. attractive, but not model attractive, just reasonable.
4. low drama
Barbies only need apply. Or blow up dolls.
No, but high maintenance need not apply.
+1 I wrote that list, and I'm a DW. In no way am I a barbie .. LOL. I'm barely 5' with small boobs. But, I fit that list, and I am low maintenance. That list is based on what I have read on the forum and what DH told me, and my own personal experience.
Of course, DH was also attracted to me because I'm intelligent and a good person (per his words). We also get along, have similar life goals, etc.. Those qualities make for a good life partner, but to get to the long term commitment stage, you have to get over the hurdle of the initial phase, and as for my DH, those qualities I listed above would be an early deal breaker in terms of long term commitment.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:12
Subject: Re:Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:I think there are two types of wealthy men, those who want to be challenged and intellectually stimulated by their partner, and those who want a trophy partner. Obviously the qualities of those two types of partners would vary widely.
True to an extent. But a woman who can only discuss his or her career and basic, basic views on politics, current events, pop culture, etc. is not intellectually stimulating at all.(Same is true for men obviously but threads about what time of man a "high value" woman would want never come up because the answer is so obvious).
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:11
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:another one of these threads?
seriously.
Here it is again:
1. low drama
2. likes sex, having fun
3. attractive, but not model attractive, just reasonable.
4. low drama
Barbies only need apply. Or blow up dolls.
No, but high maintenance need not apply.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:10
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Nice troll with the $150k.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:05
Subject: Re:Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:I think there are two types of wealthy men, those who want to be challenged and intellectually stimulated by their partner, and those who want a trophy partner. Obviously the qualities of those two types of partners would vary widely.
I wasn’t wealthy at the time but the former was clearly my choice. Now that I’m wealthy I’m still happily married to the former and I’d consider her a trophy.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 11:04
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
If the guy's making in the $150K range, then I would hope he's looking for a woman with a professional job.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 10:56
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:another one of these threads?
seriously.
Here it is again:
1. low drama
2. likes sex, having fun
3. attractive, but not model attractive, just reasonable.
4. low drama
Barbies only need apply. Or blow up dolls.
Anonymous
10/01/2020 10:10
Subject: Type of woman a “high value” man would want
I'll play- good lucking, healthy, agreeable, good cook, vibrant, young enough to have kids and be an active mother, a whore in bed