Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 16:04     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
My 20 year old daughter is shy and modest. She does not believe it, but is very beautiful. For instance on freshman tour at college snapped her photo for cover. As a kid weirdly folks would stop is too say how beautiful she is. I mean like when 1 year old. Every relative from when she was 5-10 wanted her a a flower girl. She finds it annoying. She always drags sister or someone with her if walking as cars pull over.

Don’t laugh but my buddy was looking for a gf in his 20s at that level beauty. I actually stopped the car when we saw a girl like that walking dog and we started talking . Literally in a club it would be 1,000 guys going after same girl. He married her. Apparently it is amazing how that goes. I actually asked a hot girl out on day she found out husband was cheating. I just wanted to be first on line.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 16:01     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:Health is more important than beauty. I always believed that when you are young, physical beauty is given, and when you are old, physical beauty is earned. You will see many of the women you considered beautiful and privileged in their 20s have their looks fade into their 40s, or they get ridiculous plastic surgery. Those who hold up their looks have to earn it with proper lifestyles. An "average" woman by genetics can stand out from others over 40 if she is physically fit, takes good care of her skin, dresses well, gets enough sleep.

This is what I tell myself, anyway. In my 20s I felt like I was nothing special. Not ugly, but I hated my pale skin and dull eye color and lack of prominent cheekbones and being short. Just kind of plain and mousy looking. I made up for it by staying in shape, having a good skin regimen, and getting beauty sleep. Paid off in dividends now that I'm 40.


Most beautiful women take meticulous care of themselves into old age and look beautiful no matter how old.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:46     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
I get it, but it’s not really true. Ugly people treat them like crap or try to make things harder for them bc of their own jealous
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:42     Subject: Re:I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Health is more important than beauty. I always believed that when you are young, physical beauty is given, and when you are old, physical beauty is earned. You will see many of the women you considered beautiful and privileged in their 20s have their looks fade into their 40s, or they get ridiculous plastic surgery. Those who hold up their looks have to earn it with proper lifestyles. An "average" woman by genetics can stand out from others over 40 if she is physically fit, takes good care of her skin, dresses well, gets enough sleep.

This is what I tell myself, anyway. In my 20s I felt like I was nothing special. Not ugly, but I hated my pale skin and dull eye color and lack of prominent cheekbones and being short. Just kind of plain and mousy looking. I made up for it by staying in shape, having a good skin regimen, and getting beauty sleep. Paid off in dividends now that I'm 40.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:41     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
I don't know, OP. The most beautiful women I've known have not led the happiest lives. They've all had unwanted attention from men that was annoying at best and threatening at worst. One friend in college had a dangerous stalker. She also had been a very overweight child, so she still never thought of herself as beautiful, even though she literally turned heads.

The two other women were often treated unkindly by other women. One of them, in grad school, always had to fight assumptions that she wasn't as smart or that she could coast on her looks. She was not favored by instructors but treated by her peers as if she were.

OP, the problem is within yourself. That means you can also fix it.

Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:33     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, let me tell you a secret which I discovered on DCUM. As the beautiful women get older and "lose their looks," they start to notice it and they feel the loss. I see people talking about that on DCUM pretty regularly and that's hard for them. But people like us who weren't beautiful when we were young, hey, it's no big deal and I'm enjoying the heck out of being old. It's liberating.

I understand that that makes no difference to you now but chances are it will down the road. In the meantime, live your life now and forget about them.


I am 58 and good looking!!! LASIK, Invisalign, skin cream and staying in shape
Okaaaay. I was trying to talk to OP about her insecurity and I'm not really sure why you're here announcing that you're good-looking. But, hey, congratulations, pp. Good for you.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:30     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Weird. I've been friends with many beautiful women. They're fun to be around because guys fall all over themselves to be around them. I've always enjoyed my beautiful friends.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:29     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, let me tell you a secret which I discovered on DCUM. As the beautiful women get older and "lose their looks," they start to notice it and they feel the loss. I see people talking about that on DCUM pretty regularly and that's hard for them. But people like us who weren't beautiful when we were young, hey, it's no big deal and I'm enjoying the heck out of being old. It's liberating.

I understand that that makes no difference to you now but chances are it will down the road. In the meantime, live your life now and forget about them.


I am 58 and good looking!!! LASIK, Invisalign, skin cream and staying in shape
Because of course you can't be good looking if you have to wear glasses. SMH
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:28     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I once went on two dates with an insanely hot girl who was a former model. She was in cover of Cosmo and Vogue. But retired. I was 27. Her Dad was a Billionaire!!!

She must of thought I had more money that i had as she asked me on second date what car will I be picking her up in. She was going to look out window as hard to park.

I go well I have my Jeep Wrangler convertible I took you to beach in. She goes so cute, my brother has one for a daytime car. But this is nighttime. I actually also owned a classic old Mercedes I rarely drove as it was 25 years old. I drive that to pick her up. We went to a restaurant that you need reservations. Apparently when you pull up to a fancy restaurant in a classic Mercedes With a billionaires smoking hot daughter reservations are not needed

Funny part more folks looking at me. Way more. Like how big a shot is this guy if he can date hot billionaires.

Sadly, Dad bluffed me out. She mentioned me and asked if I wanted to join his golf club. We can meet there for lunch. Was $100,000 to join, apparently date 3 was 100k.



LOL was this Trump?!?


The DAD in the 1970s and 1980s sold fiber optic and telecommunications wires. Basically every major bank and broker dealer he wired all the data Cerberus and coax to all the computers. Massive mark ups and did IPO. I was literally making 45k a year. But my parents had smallest oldest cheapest house in a very rich town, I drove a very used Mercedes and a newer Jeep and worked at a name brand company but a junkier job. On paper I looked good. Dad fleshed it out quick
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:24     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:OP, let me tell you a secret which I discovered on DCUM. As the beautiful women get older and "lose their looks," they start to notice it and they feel the loss. I see people talking about that on DCUM pretty regularly and that's hard for them. But people like us who weren't beautiful when we were young, hey, it's no big deal and I'm enjoying the heck out of being old. It's liberating.

I understand that that makes no difference to you now but chances are it will down the road. In the meantime, live your life now and forget about them.


I am 58 and good looking!!! LASIK, Invisalign, skin cream and staying in shape
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:24     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:I once went on two dates with an insanely hot girl who was a former model. She was in cover of Cosmo and Vogue. But retired. I was 27. Her Dad was a Billionaire!!!

She must of thought I had more money that i had as she asked me on second date what car will I be picking her up in. She was going to look out window as hard to park.

I go well I have my Jeep Wrangler convertible I took you to beach in. She goes so cute, my brother has one for a daytime car. But this is nighttime. I actually also owned a classic old Mercedes I rarely drove as it was 25 years old. I drive that to pick her up. We went to a restaurant that you need reservations. Apparently when you pull up to a fancy restaurant in a classic Mercedes With a billionaires smoking hot daughter reservations are not needed

Funny part more folks looking at me. Way more. Like how big a shot is this guy if he can date hot billionaires.

Sadly, Dad bluffed me out. She mentioned me and asked if I wanted to join his golf club. We can meet there for lunch. Was $100,000 to join, apparently date 3 was 100k.



LOL was this Trump?!?
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:23     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:I am a conventionally attractive woman and I recognized early on the effect it has on people. I am also intelligent and have worked for everything I have. When choosing friends and acquaintances to spend time at social gatherings with, I often chose women who are as or more attractive than myself. Being in a group of beautiful women has opened many doors socially. We have a couple of friends who aren't as conventionally attractive in our group and they receive the same VIP treatment.


I dated five drop dead beautiful girls. My first college dated the hottest girl on campus. Second college hottest girl, dated three ex models. I also date a tv actress. I also date female traders, really rich average girls.

My mom used to think WTF. When I lived home I actually used to borrow my girls cars to take other girls on dates. My mom freeked out. My logic was simple they had nicer cars AND if I have their car they can’t catch me.

And I did get caught once. My GF saw me jumped in front of my car when out with Her friends screaming, I slammed in brakes jump out yell it is not what it looks like and tear off in car. I tell girl in car that is ex gf who I have a restraining order against who is insane and dangerous I drop her off speed back to bar and tell GF I rescued a girl at bar with asthma and had to speed to her home for her inhaler.

It worked!! I enjoyed being good looking
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:21     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
OP, let me tell you a secret which I discovered on DCUM. As the beautiful women get older and "lose their looks," they start to notice it and they feel the loss. I see people talking about that on DCUM pretty regularly and that's hard for them. But people like us who weren't beautiful when we were young, hey, it's no big deal and I'm enjoying the heck out of being old. It's liberating.

I understand that that makes no difference to you now but chances are it will down the road. In the meantime, live your life now and forget about them.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:19     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Anonymous wrote:I am a conventionally attractive woman and I recognized early on the effect it has on people. I am also intelligent and have worked for everything I have. When choosing friends and acquaintances to spend time at social gatherings with, I often chose women who are as or more attractive than myself. Being in a group of beautiful women has opened many doors socially. We have a couple of friends who aren't as conventionally attractive in our group and they receive the same VIP treatment.


Nobody has worked for everything they have so maybe you are more confident than smart.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2020 15:19     Subject: I will always secretly hate beautiful women
Meh, looks fade, for everyone. Kindness is more than skin deep. I never understood haters of any kind, it must be so draining and cancer inducing.