Anonymous wrote:This is OP. For a reward, you have to use the child’s own currency or the reward doesn’t work. DD’s currency is sweets, tv, and toys. Large toys, not just little pieces of plastic. She doesn’t care about stickers or mini chocolate chips so those won’t work.
We aren’t working on “milestones.” As I explained in my OP, we are working on basic, everyday things that kids without SN can do without a three hour melt down, like rinse your hair. Yes, I’m fine with giving her a gummy to avoid the three hour hour screaming fit.
I feel frustrated with the way many posters on DCUM can’t just answer the question and think they know better than OP and better than the professionals. But thank you to the people who offered suggestions to this tired mama!
Totally with you OP and sorry people were jerks. It drives me insane when people A) don't bother to fully read the OP and B) offer unsolicited advice that has nothing to do with your question. Obviously you trust your therapist which is why you're asking!
What about marshmallows?