Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:18     Subject: Re:Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:totally normal request in light of current situation.


Parents are masking up around their kids for weeks on end because they were with people without masks?



Yes, Some are.


I don't know anyone like this.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:17     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Respect the mother.


I am an exw too. I get it. But this isn't about that. It's about her controlling/punishing him. (I know, because I am an exw.)



How long have you been seeing this man?


1.5 years.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:16     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:I had to travel out of state to drop a kid off at college and my WORK is making me self-quarantine for two weeks because it was to an at-risk state. And we’re full time teleworking right now. So no the request is not unreasonable.


Are you wearing a mask around your other kids now too?
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:16     Subject: Re:Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:totally normal request in light of current situation.


Parents are masking up around their kids for weeks on end because they were with people without masks?



Yes, Some are.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:16     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Respect the mother.


I am an exw too. I get it. But this isn't about that. It's about her controlling/punishing him. (I know, because I am an exw.)



How long have you been seeing this man?
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:16     Subject: Re:Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:totally normal request in light of current situation.


Parents are masking up around their kids for weeks on end because they were with people without masks?
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:13     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
I feel sorry for the kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:13     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And so your problem is that he's complying with her request?


He told you about her request?


That she made the request?


He's not complying. I am a mom of 3 kids and I share custody with exh. I wouldn't fathom of making a similar request. It's nutty and controlling.


Thank you! There's enough details in your post for a custody modification!


Why are you thanking yourself OP.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:10     Subject: Re:Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
totally normal request in light of current situation.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:10     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
How will you feel if you end up covid positive and one of those kids suffers as a consequence?

Better safe than sorry. Don't be a selfish, immature brat. Err on the side of caution. It's not about you.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:09     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:Mom is right. Mask up.


no she’s not right, not unless she’s demanding the same of any other person in contact with the kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:08     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And so your problem is that he's complying with her request?


He told you about her request?


That she made the request?


He's not complying. I am a mom of 3 kids and I share custody with exh. I wouldn't fathom of making a similar request. It's nutty and controlling.


Thank you! There's enough details in your post for a custody modification!


No, there is not.

But OP, I recommend myob. The ex is trying to exert control, but I’d leave it up to your bf to handle it however he sees fit.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:08     Subject: Re:Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
All she wants is for him to wear a mask? So easy!
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:08     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
Mom is right. Mask up.
Anonymous
Post 08/24/2020 18:08     Subject: Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me
I had to travel out of state to drop a kid off at college and my WORK is making me self-quarantine for two weeks because it was to an at-risk state. And we’re full time teleworking right now. So no the request is not unreasonable.