Anonymous wrote:OP here. No affair. Though I'm very sorry to those who have experienced partner cheating. Just 2 people that I ( and a few others) have really want to get togther for awhile, and it may have actually happened. They seemed to be a bit closer than usual is all, so I and a few others were wondering.

My DH and I were like this. Lots of people happy when we finally got together too! I think we were pretty similar before and after, but the little differences people speak about above are real. Sharing food, taking walks together when the opportunity presents. Stood closer together, drifted away from each other in social settings less frequently. Small touches, got my drinks at the happy hours. Stuff that in isolation wouldn't be that much but adding together meant something.

If you sense something when you're with them, then that is probably as good an indication as anything.

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Anonymous wrote:My now DH and I worked for the same company in the same department and when he went into his boss’ office to tell him he was getting married the boss asked “To who?”. We had been dating for about 8-9 months so at least we fooled one person. It did annoy me that my now DH would pass me in the hall and just say hi as though I wasn’t the girl he had had great sex with the night before!

I’m sure he would have loved to have bent you over your desk after hours but he used good judgement!

How do you know he hasn't?

She walks into the restaurant in front of him wearing a collar, he is holding the leash.

Anonymous wrote:If you are probing about people having an affair good luck! Other than affair they will let you know unless you are an employee of the same company and they have a no dating policy.

OP again. Not an affair. Not their boss. Just a friend, whose spidey senses tell her, 2 of her friends are seeing each other secretly. Which if I'm right, I'm very happy about, because I have long thought they'd be a great couple!

If you are probing about people having an affair good luck! Other than affair they will let you know unless you are an employee of the same company and they have a no dating policy.

They hate each other a little too much, like “with a passion.”

Anonymous wrote:My now DH and I worked for the same company in the same department and when he went into his boss’ office to tell him he was getting married the boss asked “To who?”. We had been dating for about 8-9 months so at least we fooled one person. It did annoy me that my now DH would pass me in the hall and just say hi as though I wasn’t the girl he had had great sex with the night before!

I’m sure he would have loved to have bent you over your desk after hours but he used good judgement!

My now DH and I worked for the same company in the same department and when he went into his boss’ office to tell him he was getting married the boss asked “To who?”. We had been dating for about 8-9 months so at least we fooled one person. It did annoy me that my now DH would pass me in the hall and just say hi as though I wasn’t the girl he had had great sex with the night before!

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Anonymous wrote:Here’s one. When I was dating my DH, we weren’t telling anyone at work (we worked together). We are sitting having lunch, and he wanted to taste what I was drinking and just picked up my beverage and drank out of my straw. You don’t just do that with a work friend. It’s the really little things.

Same with us. We worked together in NY and we were in SF for the weekend after a big sales meeting and someone saw us walking through Ghiardelli Square holding hands. Dead giveaway! The word spread like wild fire.

So I assume you weren't trying to hide it if you were walking through a tourist attraction holding hands.

We were about 3000 miles from home so we didn’t feel a need to hide it. But we were wrong!

Body language when the three of you are together.

OP here. No affair. Though I'm very sorry to those who have experienced partner cheating. Just 2 people that I ( and a few others) have really want to get togther for awhile, and it may have actually happened. They seemed to be a bit closer than usual is all, so I and a few others were wondering.

I walked into a room where my dh and ap were working and the air froze and they became very still. It’s all in the body language.

Anonymous wrote:I discovered my husbands affair by putting together a string of very minor details. The first one was at a post soccer game team dinner. My coach husband was passing out peoples various orders and looked to his affair partner (totally clueless to this fact at the time) and said “I think they still put the mayo on, I’ll take it.” It was a small gesture but I remember thinking why would he know Rebecca Slovic hates mayo??? Probably bc he had lunch with her twice a week for over a year!!! Duh!!!!!

Is that here real name?

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Anonymous wrote:Here’s one. When I was dating my DH, we weren’t telling anyone at work (we worked together). We are sitting having lunch, and he wanted to taste what I was drinking and just picked up my beverage and drank out of my straw. You don’t just do that with a work friend. It’s the really little things.

Same with us. We worked together in NY and we were in SF for the weekend after a big sales meeting and someone saw us walking through Ghiardelli Square holding hands. Dead giveaway! The word spread like wild fire.

So I assume you weren't trying to hide it if you were walking through a tourist attraction holding hands.

Anonymous wrote:Here’s one. When I was dating my DH, we weren’t telling anyone at work (we worked together). We are sitting having lunch, and he wanted to taste what I was drinking and just picked up my beverage and drank out of my straw. You don’t just do that with a work friend. It’s the really little things.

Same with us. We worked together in NY and we were in SF for the weekend after a big sales meeting and someone saw us walking through Ghiardelli Square holding hands. Dead giveaway! The word spread like wild fire.