Anonymous
08/16/2020 10:06
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I hate texting. I have better things to do, I don't text during work, and I hate feeling like I'm at someone's beck and call. I also think it spoils men - they get attention without having to make any real effort.
If you want to talk more, invite her out more.
Do you expect phone calls or real dates?
Anonymous
08/16/2020 09:47
Subject: Communication Frequency
Woman here. I hate texting. I have better things to do, I don't text during work, and I hate feeling like I'm at someone's beck and call. I also think it spoils men - they get attention without having to make any real effort.
If you want to talk more, invite her out more.
If you want to talk more, invite her out more.
Anonymous
08/16/2020 09:28
Subject: Communication Frequency
This is so strange to me! In a year, are you still going to talk every few days? Seriously?
Anonymous
08/15/2020 16:29
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.
A little harsh?
Why do you say that? He's not getting what he wants. Shouldn't he adjust the relationship accordingly?
I completely agree. If she were that interested she'd communicate more. Clearly she's either not emotionally available or playing the field. Either way he should just move on. Not worth his time.
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:36
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.
A little harsh?
Why do you say that? He's not getting what he wants. Shouldn't he adjust the relationship accordingly?
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:36
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Wait. So you're barely reaching out but you want her to initiate more? Why not bring up the topic of a relationship and see where her head is?
It's only been a few months.
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:29
Subject: Communication Frequency
Wait. So you're barely reaching out but you want her to initiate more? Why not bring up the topic of a relationship and see where her head is?
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:11
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.
A little harsh?
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:03
Subject: Communication Frequency
Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.
Anonymous
08/14/2020 14:01
Subject: Re:Communication Frequency
If you are seeing her 2-3 times a week infrequent texting is not a problem. Don’t come across as needy, women hate it.
Anonymous
08/14/2020 09:15
Subject: Re:Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:TOTALLY disagree with the she's not into you view.
I HATE the constant feeling of being obligated to text or call someone for small talk. If she's into on a date & responding to your texts she may be less into virtual communication but just see her.
My BF was really frustrated because he felt like I was MIA in the beginning- but he decided to pursue things by seeing me in person more. Once we got more serious I was very mindful that he needed more communication than me and we kind of met in the middle.
I was very attracted to his willingness to show his interest as well- he didn't care who called last or who's turn it was to text. .
This is exactly how it feels!
Anonymous
08/14/2020 01:21
Subject: Re:Communication Frequency
TOTALLY disagree with the she's not into you view.
I HATE the constant feeling of being obligated to text or call someone for small talk. If she's into on a date & responding to your texts she may be less into virtual communication but just see her.
My BF was really frustrated because he felt like I was MIA in the beginning- but he decided to pursue things by seeing me in person more. Once we got more serious I was very mindful that he needed more communication than me and we kind of met in the middle.
I was very attracted to his willingness to show his interest as well- he didn't care who called last or who's turn it was to text. .
I HATE the constant feeling of being obligated to text or call someone for small talk. If she's into on a date & responding to your texts she may be less into virtual communication but just see her.
My BF was really frustrated because he felt like I was MIA in the beginning- but he decided to pursue things by seeing me in person more. Once we got more serious I was very mindful that he needed more communication than me and we kind of met in the middle.
I was very attracted to his willingness to show his interest as well- he didn't care who called last or who's turn it was to text. .
Anonymous
08/14/2020 00:36
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:[youtube]Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?
I think texting only every few days sounds delightful
2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes
Ok so I just saw this you see each other 2 to 3 times a week and text every couple of days, that seems like plenty for people who are not in an official relationship. If you would like to talk to her more just do it.
Maybe bring up being in a relationship if you want? Is that really what you're wanting?
Anonymous
08/13/2020 21:52
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:[youtube]Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?
I think texting only every few days sounds delightful
2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes
Ok so I just saw this you see each other 2 to 3 times a week and text every couple of days, that seems like plenty for people who are not in an official relationship. If you would like to talk to her more just do it.
Anonymous
08/13/2020 21:48
Subject: Communication Frequency
Anonymous wrote:[youtube]Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?
I think texting only every few days sounds delightful
2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes
You’re already meeting her twice a week. I wouldn’t want too much more texting etc. I think it depends on each person.
Are you just divorced that you’re a bit not sure how to gauge?