Anonymous
Post 07/18/2020 17:09     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

What does not quarantining mean? She will go t of the grocery store...or she will be hanging out at a bar? How risky is her behavior.

Anonymous
Post 07/18/2020 17:02     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Quit your job and stay home. Sorry but your child and newborn matter more.
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2020 16:55     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:i am a high school teacher and I guarantee you the teens are not quarantining,social distancing, whatever. I see them out whenever i am out. They DO NOT follow any rules despite what their parents may think.


A little off topic, but I am a parent of two teens and can guarantee that they are social distancing. They are home with me. Are other teens out? No doubt. But just because you see some or even many teens out doesn't mean that every teen is out.



OP’s nanny is at work at OP’s house all day and you think her teens are home and isolated?
Anonymous
Post 07/18/2020 16:45     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

^^

The nanny's teens are not. I guarantee it.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2020 10:54     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Anonymous wrote:i am a high school teacher and I guarantee you the teens are not quarantining,social distancing, whatever. I see them out whenever i am out. They DO NOT follow any rules despite what their parents may think.


A little off topic, but I am a parent of two teens and can guarantee that they are social distancing. They are home with me. Are other teens out? No doubt. But just because you see some or even many teens out doesn't mean that every teen is out.
Anonymous
Post 07/17/2020 10:47     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

The nanny was never quarantining in the first place! She lives one place and comes to OP's home, that's not quarantining.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 22:55     Subject: Re:Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Anonymous wrote:if you want to find another nanny i'd advise you to start asap. I am ending maternity leave shortly and basically spent all of leave interviewing nannies until I found one I felt comfortable with. I don't think you are overreacting, these are difficult times and having a baby adds to the stress. I would not be comfortable with that level of risk. We were able to find someone who we are comfortable with, recognizing that everyone will carry some risk.


+1

Also just went with a nanny that has minimal risk. Meaning she has no family and lives alone. That made me feel more comfortable with a new baby in the house
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 22:29     Subject: Re:Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

if you want to find another nanny i'd advise you to start asap. I am ending maternity leave shortly and basically spent all of leave interviewing nannies until I found one I felt comfortable with. I don't think you are overreacting, these are difficult times and having a baby adds to the stress. I would not be comfortable with that level of risk. We were able to find someone who we are comfortable with, recognizing that everyone will carry some risk.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 22:15     Subject: Re:Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Your nanny’s teenagers were NEVER social distancing or isolating. Just accept that.

And you can try but it’s doubtful you’ll find another good nanny now.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 21:32     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

i am a high school teacher and I guarantee you the teens are not quarantining,social distancing, whatever. I see them out whenever i am out. They DO NOT follow any rules despite what their parents may think.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 15:00     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Dcmom11 wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Who is watching the kids when she is watching yours?


Her kids are teenagers and at home alone


Yeah right. They are out with their friends, not social distancing, doing whatever they want. She’s already a risk to you and your family.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2020 14:58     Subject: Nanny no longer going to quarantine. Advice needed

Op - all that matters is *IF* you can find someone else