Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I’m upset right now because I got him to at least agree to place all vehicles he purchases for me in my name only. So far so good but yesterday when we talked about trading in my suv for a newer model he tells me we’re going to take advantage of the 3 year interest free financing for the balance. Where as before he’s always bought them outright for me. So I thought to myself, so basically if things go south I’m on the hook for 40k! I really don’t understand why my DH thinks I’m an idiot. And why he would even think I would go for this new way of purchasing vehicles for me . I think that’s what really upsets me. So I just politely declined and said I’ll just keep the one I have. We really need to get into therapy ASAP! Waiting for therapist to open back up .
Anonymous wrote:You should have realized that he was a control freak when he dropped it on you at the last minute. I was lucky! I married a very wealthy guy who had three young children along with a very successful business. When the subject of a pre-nup came up he asked me to write down what I thought was fair if we were to get divorced. So I wrote down what I thought was fair based on the number of years married and what I felt was needed to maintain an UMC lifestyle. So, if married for 10 years I would receive ten years and so on. When I showed it to him he actually increased my proposed amounts. That was over 20 years ago so I‘ve never needed it but it did tell me I was marrying a very fair man.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This post was written by a man in his 50s or older. No young woman would use phrases like 'double wide' and 'piece of garbage.' I also find the collation 'snap and tell him you got it!' intensely masculine. OP, I can enjoy the work of a troll as much as anyone but there must be a modicum of skill.
I think it’s the older woman troll that frequently posts here to complain about her husband and how he controls all the money and isn’t living up to the promises he made about putting her name on the house etc. she quit her job to live on easy street not realizing its a gravel paved pot-hole riddled mess.
Anonymous wrote:This post was written by a man in his 50s or older. No young woman would use phrases like 'double wide' and 'piece of garbage.' I also find the collation 'snap and tell him you got it!' intensely masculine. OP, I can enjoy the work of a troll as much as anyone but there must be a modicum of skill.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You need to figure out why you were attracted to this man in the first place,
It’$ a my$tery. How can $he de$cribe the $ubtle nuance$ of her de$ire for thi$ man? $uffice it to $ay, there was $pecial chemi$try.
Anonymous wrote:You need to figure out why you were attracted to this man in the first place,