Anonymous
Post 06/08/2020 09:32     Subject: Argument style: YOU should apologize
Anonymous wrote:I hate how some posters try to paint everyone with ADHD with the same brush. Not all people with it are assholes, there are those who are kind, funny, empathetic people. These broad statements can be very damaging.


Advice for you: Do not have kids

Anonymous
Post 06/08/2020 08:58     Subject: Re:Argument style: YOU should apologize
Anonymous wrote:Yeah my DH too. There are probably a lot of us.

Don’t want to deal with the financial implications of divorce, or him having the kids 50% so I deal. Divorce would royally eff up our kids.

Basically men (not all but most) are gigantic babies with poor emotional skills. With occasional bright spots/moments. Unfortunately.


+1 especially the last paragraph. There’s a lot of ego protection as well which leads to them acting this way.
Anonymous
Post 06/08/2020 01:28     Subject: Re:Argument style: YOU should apologize
Yeah my DH too. There are probably a lot of us.

Don’t want to deal with the financial implications of divorce, or him having the kids 50% so I deal. Divorce would royally eff up our kids.

Basically men (not all but most) are gigantic babies with poor emotional skills. With occasional bright spots/moments. Unfortunately.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2020 20:41     Subject: Argument style: YOU should apologize
Anonymous wrote:So you just give up and stay? I think most men are all talk. They might “say” they want 50% custody, but when that reality becomes real, they will have a million excuses.


Many aspies say and do anything to protect their ego and image, at all costs to their marriage or relationship.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2020 15:53     Subject: Argument style: YOU should apologize
So you just give up and stay? I think most men are all talk. They might “say” they want 50% custody, but when that reality becomes real, they will have a million excuses.