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Anonymous wrote:I would be absolutely livid. I mean, I can't imagine having let people in the house in the first place, but that ship has sailed. At this point, I would tell DH that from now on, I will be making all the health decisions for our family, and all decisions related to socializing or allowing people into the house since he's proven incapable of either.

And I'd contemplate divorce. Seriously, that's the height of stupidity.

OP here. Once I calm down, that is the plan.

Also, if lots of folk have been in your home you need to alert them, ALL of them however slim the chance! Do that NOW

Anonymous wrote:I am a previous poster who complained that my DH kept letting his parents come over. He continued to do so. His dad just tested positive for COVID and his parents were in our home yesterday. I am freaking out. We have a high risk child. Obviously we need to self quarantine. Do we need to get tested? I cleaned after they left...

Call your health care provider they will most likely refer you for testing! Self-isolate for sure .

I’m sorry OP, I’d be freaking out too. However, try to stay calm so your child doesn’t catch on. Everyone should be going to bed early, taking naps, eating healthfully. Odds are overwhelmingly in favor of you all being fine. Sending you good luck.

Also, I find this tendency of men to under react and do zero modification of behavior (which really isn’t burdensome at all) to be so effed beyond belief. My DH only wears a mask because I make him... like I make my children. He takes risks that don’t benefit him at all and put our family at risk. Is this toxic masculinity? Men, step it up and take care of your families. I’ve witnessed so much of this asinine behavior. Be a man.

I'd also be furious at the grandfather. It sounds like he's in the healthcare field, so shouldn't he know better? The paternal DNA for rational thinking is pretty weak here.

Anonymous wrote:OP, call your doctor and your kid’s doctor. They can tell you when you can get tested and where. Of course you should all get tested. Don’t panic, just stay home and call the doctor.

+1.

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Anonymous wrote:How is your child high risk? I didn't think any children were at high risk.

Any child with cardiac issues, with cancer or any other disease that surpasses immunity, any kid who takes drugs that have the side effect of suppressing immunity, etc.

OP here. One of our kids has congenital heart disease.

I am sorry ☹️ Your DH is indeed reckless

OP, call your doctor and your kid’s doctor. They can tell you when you can get tested and where. Of course you should all get tested. Don’t panic, just stay home and call the doctor.

So sorry OP. I know it's easier said than done, but try not to stress out, get plenty of exercise and rest, and watch DC for symptoms as well

Anonymous wrote:I would be absolutely livid. I mean, I can't imagine having let people in the house in the first place, but that ship has sailed. At this point, I would tell DH that from now on, I will be making all the health decisions for our family, and all decisions related to socializing or allowing people into the house since he's proven incapable of either.

And I'd contemplate divorce. Seriously, that's the height of stupidity.

OP here. Once I calm down, that is the plan.

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Anonymous wrote:How is your child high risk? I didn't think any children were at high risk.

Any child with cardiac issues, with cancer or any other disease that surpasses immunity, any kid who takes drugs that have the side effect of suppressing immunity, etc.

OP here. One of our kids has congenital heart disease.

Anonymous wrote:How is your child high risk? I didn't think any children were at high risk.

Any child with cardiac issues, with cancer or any other disease that surpasses immunity, any kid who takes drugs that have the side effect of suppressing immunity, etc.

How is your child high risk? I didn't think any children were at high risk.

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Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, why was your FIL at your house yesterday and is then testing for covid today?

He works in the healthcare field. I had no idea that he was tested (tested on Wednesday and just got results today). His last test a few weeks ago was apparently negative. I am just learning of all of this. I am not sure if my DH knew his dad was being tested.

If you saw my last post, I’ve been at odds with my DH on his parents coming over. Now we’re here. And I am beyond livid.

I’m the PP. didn’t see your other posts, but I’d be livid too.

Anonymous wrote:Even if you caught it, it probably takes time for it to incubate. So, I wouldn't rush out and get tested yet as it's too early. I'm not a medical professional though. Don't panic. Eat some elderberry gummies and relax. Sanitize your whole house.

All of this is good advice except the elderberry. Covid involves and over reactive immune system. I’d avoid elderberry which increases the functioning of the immune system.

I would be absolutely livid. I mean, I can't imagine having let people in the house in the first place, but that ship has sailed. At this point, I would tell DH that from now on, I will be making all the health decisions for our family, and all decisions related to socializing or allowing people into the house since he's proven incapable of either.

And I'd contemplate divorce. Seriously, that's the height of stupidity.