Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP—Since the nanny left, have you or spouse left your house? Gone grocery shopping? Stopped by Starbucks? Visited a store?
I went grocery shopping, though wiped down my cart and scrubbed my hands when I got home. DH got gas, but packed hand sanitizer for the errand. So not perfect, but we’re basically living in lockdown mode.
You were likely closer to more people in that grocery store than your nanny was at the wedding.
Anonymous wrote:Just have your nanny come and take care of your kids. You have all been exposed to each other already.
Your nanny is the big exposure risk here after attending the wedding, so, obviously even if she even has a slight cough, she should stay home.
Anonymous wrote:Where was the wedding? That would be an important factor for me. Somewhere in Western PA? I'd be OK with her coming back to work immediately. Seattle? I'd consider firing her for exercising bad judgment, frankly.
Anonymous wrote:3 kids - 7, 4, 1. As of Monday, all will be home 24/7. DH and I will both be working from home, but will both really need to work. (DH a ton, me a lot.) Our new-as-of-2020, but so far truly awesome, nanny just took a long weekend for a wedding within driving distance. I was hoping she'd cancel, but she didn't, and in fairness, when she left Thursday, things were different than they are tonight. She's due back Tuesday and I'm kind of freaking out about exposing her to our kids (and us). None of us are immuno-compromised or otherwise at high risk. And we don't have a back-up plan. What would DCUM do?