I would be absolutely crushed.

Anonymous wrote:Do you regularly provide him with sexual relief? My wife doesn't like having sex on family vacations because it's difficult to have privacy when staying in a hotel room with the kids. All it takes is 5 - 10 minutes in the shower. The tension just builds up too much so family vacations tend to get a bit stressful.

I'm guessing OP doesn't, and OP has let herself fall apart in the last few years.

A definite 10. When we are on vacation I give him plenty of reasons to stay in our room.....assuming the kids are in a different room!

Do you regularly provide him with sexual relief? My wife doesn't like having sex on family vacations because it's difficult to have privacy when staying in a hotel room with the kids. All it takes is 5 - 10 minutes in the shower. The tension just builds up too much so family vacations tend to get a bit stressful.

Yeah, you have a problem.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

Agree. With a group of buddies on a guys' trip, this would be a 0, but alone on a family vacation, at least a 10!

This, this, this! Mine is not into strip clubs generally, but out with a bunch of guys at a Bachelor party or something? Whatever, have at it, I don't care. On a vacation leaving me alone to take care of the child, him going out alone to get some kind of a "fix?" No way. That's very weird and I would be at least at a 10.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

Agree. With a group of buddies on a guys' trip, this would be a 0, but alone on a family vacation, at least a 10!

How did you find out? Did he know you'd be nuts about it. Doesn't seem that big of a deal to me. Maybe I'm just younger, but most of my girlfriends don't care if our men go to strip clubs.

Absolutely 10. I'd be fuming.
And for the record, my DH has gone to strip clubs before during bachelor parties, but during a family vacation just seems so wrong.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Douchebag move
I’d read home the riot act

It would be completely out of character for my husband so I'd be very concerned. For someone else's husband, I'd think it's tacky and inconsiderate.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

This cannot be out of the blue behavior. How does this fit in with other things he’s done?

How did that transpire?

Where were you and daughter. Did he just say he was heading out for a night show?

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