Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hadn’t thought about transportation! I can definitely see how that would make things more complicated as it’s the middle of the year.
The bus for a private placement is a big deal. My kid is on the bus for an hour in the afternoon even though the school is 30 minutes away. Routing determines everything. In the past when our route has been too long I have had help from our placement officer--that's the official MCPS person who works with the private school and the person who will run your IEP meetings from then on--but I have heard that some of them will not intervene. I have always said that it's not my kid's fault that MCPS does not have a program that can educate him and he should not be penalized by two hours on the bus.
The other fun fact is that MCPS has a program that allows private pay students to come to your house and catch the bus. For three years I have had strangers coming to my house for the bus (and for sticklers out there it is indeed my house because I've had people on my front porch; running through my yard and asking to use my bathroom because seemingly some people don't know how a bus stop is supposed to work). No one asks your consent and no one tells you anything. People will just show up one day and act like they are supposed to be in your driveway.
This is so strange, because we were one of those private pay parents. We had to get parental permission. We unilaterally placed our DD in a non-public one hour from our house, while we were in due process. MCPS did not agree to CIEP for us, and MCPS transportation said we needed permission from the parent to ride a MCPS bus. They also wouldn’t give us names of such parents to get permission. I ended up asking the school to seek permission for me to contact two parents in our county. One was very reluctant and another was very kind and said we were welcome to come to her house to catch the bus, she invited me in once, she helped my DD once when we were late. It was SUCH a lifesaver, and got us through a really difficult time.
Now I guess I understand why the one was reluctant, but at the time we could not understand why we needed parental permission to stand with our kid at the bottom of someone’s driveway. I was just so grateful another parent was willing to help us.